F23. I’ve never been able to orgasm, either with partners or on my own, so I’ve recently bought some sex toys and am trying to learn. I have really enjoyed using a pinpoint vibrator, but whenever I use it, it feels really good right until a certain point and then I have to turn it off. The feeling ends up being too overwhelming, but not necessarily in a good way - it’s to the point that it’s uncomfortable.
It’s weird bc I think I have a fairly high sex drive and I do really enjoy the feeling, but I can never get past a certain point. It’s super frustrating and I definitely want to change it.
So I guess my question is whether that’s what it should feel like before you orgasm or if anyone has any tips/tricks for learning to orgasm. I’ve been sexually active since I was 18 years old and have definitely come close, but I’ve never been able to and I honestly would really like to.