u/IcyAppointment2810

ie, plus sized or homely women

There's this guy (41M) at work who always teases me and singles me out. There'd be times when he would just be passing by where I am and he'll make a comment as he walks away. I didn't even see him notice or look at me. When we're in a group, he'd only specifically tease me. It would catch me off guard because it would come out of nowhere. I'd usually hit me or pinch him on his arm as retaliation. Sometimes, I get the feeling he only teases me to have an excuse for me to touch him.

There's this guy (41M) at work who always teases me and singles me out. There'd be times when he would just be passing by where I am and he'll make a comment as he walks away. I didn't even see him notice or look at me. When we're in a group, he'd only specifically tease me. It would catch me off guard because it would come out of nowhere. I'd usually hit me or pinch him on his arm as retaliation. Sometimes, I get the feeling he only teases me to have an excuse for me to touch him.

Would you let just any girl do this or sa girl lang na gusto nyo?

Specifically, a guy friend of mine would put his arm around my shoulder and pulls me in a little bit to his body as we walk side by side. I then instinctively would put my hand on his waist. This happened at least 5 times already. I wouldn't say we're very close friends more like co-worker/friend.

Is this just friendly behavior? Is this something you would do sa co worker mo?

Specifically, a guy friend of mine would put his arm around my shoulder and pulls me in a little bit to his body. I then instinctively would put my hand on his waist. This happened at least 5 times already. I wouldn't say we're very close friends more like co-worker/friend.

There's this guy at work who winked at me at least twice in the span of an hour. He passed by where I was standing at and he'd look straight at me then wink. We're casual friends and I wouldn't say we're very close but this guy teases me a lot and we've only known each other for 6 months.

I didn't know how to react at the time so I just stared at him. I think he thought I didn't see the first time he winked so, he did it again when he passed by where I was. Still I couldn't react. He never did it again after that though.

There's this guy I met at work who I recently started a friendship with. He's in a relationship as far as I know. We've been friends for 6 months now. When we run into each other, we'd usually greet and tease one another playfully. Today was different though. He wouldn't even look me in the eye and the conversations turned to small talk. I don't know what changed or happened. We'd usually greet each other with side hugs but he went for a fist bump today. I feel like he's also been avoiding me lately. Why do guys do this? Am I overthinking this? Maybe. I just know that the interactions I've had lately with him, makes me sad.

There's this guy at work who I have a hot and cold relationship with. Sometimes we'd greet and talk to each other warmly and all smiley but sometimes we'd just pass by each other like we're strangers. This is a guy who I've already side hugged with multiple times while we're walking, shared my drink with, I've held on to his arm once whole walking and he has held my hand too (he did it once but never repeated again). And then, some days we'd completely ignore each other.

I feel like I'm getting a whiplash from all this. It's frustrating. Is this just how guys are? Is he playing me?

There's this guy at work who I have a hot and cold relationship with. Sometimes we'd greet and talk to each other warmly and all smiley but sometimes we'd just pass by each other like we're strangers. This is a guy who I've already side hugged with multiple times while we're walking, shared my drink with, I've held on to his arm once while walking and he has held my hand too (he did it once but never repeated again). And then, some days we'd completely ignore each other.

I feel like I'm getting a whiplash from all this. It's frustrating. Is this just how guys are? Is he playing me?

If you're a man who's in a relationship, would you share a straw with a female co-worker? Would that be crossing a line or is it just normal? Is that flirting?

There's this guy at work who I was caught off guard with when he drank from my cup. In fairness, I did offer him a sip but I didn't expect he'd actually do it because every time before, he would decline and say nahihiya sya. I normally do this to be polite. It just felt unusual. Normal lang ba sa guys to share a drink with a woman lalo na if di naman kayo super close?

If you're a man who's in a relationship, would you share a straw with a female co-worker? Would that be crossing a line or is it just normal? Is that flirting?