u/Ice666White

▲ 29 r/PickUpArtist+2 crossposts

If She Says... What Are You Looking For?

Whether in a primary game or secondary game context, when a girl says...

What are you looking for?

Say this:

I'm not looking for anything in particular, I like to go with the flow. I'm open to whatever happens and have no expectations.

This prevents various problems:

  1. Telling her you're not looking for anything serious might have her disqualify you.

  2. Telling her you're looking for a girlfriend might have her disqualify you.

Instead, it expresses that you're open to exploring however far your relationship with her can go. You're not limiting yourself, or her, to something casual, and you're also not turning girls away who are looking for something more.

The main point is that a lot of women, and men, fuck up their dating opportunities by applying a cookie-cutter mindset to dating. They have an idea of what or who they want, and they are looking to see whether or not you fit it, rather than actually trying to create a genuine connection with someone.

If you focus on meeting each other and having fun, all expectations go out the fucking window.

u/Ice666White — 5 days ago