I've been dating again for the first time since the break up. I feel like I've moved on and am actually enjoying some people's time, but if she asked me for a second chance I would give her one.
Is this weird? Does it mean I haven't fully moved on? I also haven't met anybody yet and dated them seriously, lots of first dates or just some harmless flirting.
Asking as my ex said we lived too far apart, and somebody I know won't date anybody outside the city we live in.
Jusst wondering what everybody's limits are.
It's been a year and a bit since she broke up with me and I thought I was doing okay. Got reminded of her randomly last week and it has been awful. I can't sleep, I'm rereading our old texts, going on her socials, writing drafts of texts to send her. Like wtf lol
Not my first breakup but my first love
I was dating this very amazing woman for around a year and a half, but she broke up with me about 15 months ago, due to the fact we were semi long distance (We lived in different states and a 2 hour drive). Saying she wasn't sure how we could have a future since both our lives are/were rooted in our cities. I've been in relationships before, but this was the first one where I saw something real and a future together. Also, I think it hurts more as there was nothing we did "wrong", no cheating, no abuse, no neglect, etc. Sometimes I wasn't the best communicator; my natural reaction is to shut down and not talk. You could maybe say we were too hesitant or scared for one of us to pull the trigger and say we'd uproot one of our lives to move. I thought I was doing well to move on, but I recently found her alt reddit account. I couldn't help but look at her posts and pictures she posted, she's still single as well. I want to text her, but also it would be such a dick move since she was crying as she broke up with so clearly it was hard for her as well.
I've had a string of bad luck with headphones ever since my Game Ones bit the dust. Got a pair of JBL Tour M2's for Christmas 2 years ago and they broke in the exact same spot 3 times just from regular wear, never dropped, treat them nice, only ever used sitting at my PC. I guess my head is a little bigger than average and flexes the hard plastic enough that it cracks.
Looking for a wired pair of headphones/buds or a headset. My PC's bluetooth is broken so that's not an option, so I have to go wired. I've used the Audio Technica ATH-M20X before but the ear muffs are a bit too small and are uncomfortable for me.