I want to stop thinking divorce what should I do?
I have been supporting my wife for 5+ years in every way imaginable. The key areas are mental and physical health but it's taking a strain on me. Our sex life/desires have never matched leaving me feel undesired with the hundreds of times of being rejected. It's today that made me make this post where after I surprised her with flowers at work after a period of financial hardship, taking care of things in the house, trying my best to be there and show up for her in everyway I could. I was blasted with a text message about forgetting the cat poop for a couple days. What I have never told anyone is the day before I proposed she said she didn't think I really love her.