u/Hopeful_Tip_5557

I had an exam today and there was a bus strike in my area, so yesterday I asked my mom to tell my younger brother to drop me to college. He immediately said he would charge me ₹100 even though the scooty belongs to my mom and she pays for the petrol.

In the morning I woke him up and he wasted time arguing that it wasn’t even 7 yet. Then my mom started saying buses would still run in the morning during strikes. I explained that once before during a strike, the bus left me far away and I literally had to walk 11.5 km home alone. I was scared the same thing would happen again, especially on an exam day.

Instead of understanding, both of them kept arguing with me about buses and my brother kept saying he would just leave me at the bus stop if he saw a bus. I got frustrated and stormed out saying he happily does “slavery” for his friends because he picks them up and drops them every day without complaining, but acts like helping his own sister is a burden.

What hurts more is that he constantly mocks and teases me whenever I go with him on the scooty. When I complain, my mom just says “ignore him.” Today I finally started recording him because I was tired of nobody taking it seriously. Then my mom got angry at ME for recording instead of understanding why I was upset.

I somehow still went for the exam, but the whole thing made me feel so unwanted in my own house. On the way I genuinely felt like after marriage I’d never want to come back home again.

Am I overreacting for being this hurt?

I am 21F, my bf is 24M and my old crush is 21M.

I am dating my bf for 7 months and this is my first relationship. Before him, I had a crush on a guy and we lost contact 2 years ago because of misunderstandings. Recently my old crush got a new number and texted me saying he wanted to reconnect and explain things from the past.

My bf knows everything because I showed him the chats, but he already had 2 toxic relationships before me, so I understand why he feels uncomfortable about it. Even his ex tried to reconnect with him before. She used to text his friends asking them to patch them up and even said our relationship was fake and that he still hadn’t moved on. My bf told me he once thought of going to her city and telling her directly to stop contacting him or his friends, but later he dropped the idea.

I really love my bf and don’t want to hurt him or lose him, but at the same time some things from the past still feel unresolved in my mind.

I thought maybe if I ever meet my old crush, I could bring my bf with me so nothing feels secretive or wrong. I honestly don’t know what the right thing to do is.

Please give me honest advice or any other solutions you guys have in mind.

Hi everyone, i am 21F n my bf is 24M

​I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 months. He is my very first boyfriend, and everything regarding sex is completely new to me—I have never even used adult toys. He is incredibly good to me, and we currently have a great oral sex life where we both satisfy each other.

​However, we are struggling with penetration because he is very well-endowed (around 15 cm/6 inches and quite thick). We tried having vaginal sex, but the moment he put just the tip inside, it hurt so bad that I started crying. He immediately stopped and pulled out, which I really appreciated. On top of the physical pain, I realized I have a lot of anxiety about losing my virginity before marriage and a deep fear of getting pregnant.

​Because of that anxiety, I suggested we try anal sex instead. We tried it, but my anus felt way too small, and again, I started crying from the pain, so we had to stop.

​I really want to be able to at least enjoy anal sex with him, but I don't know how to progress. Since I am completely inexperienced, I don't know how to prep my body or overcome the fear and tightness.

​Has anyone else with a well-endowed partner gone through this?

​How can we safely and comfortably transition to anal (or eventually vaginal) sex without it hurting?

​Do I need to start using toys or dilators first to prep myself?