u/HeaAgaHalb

So I've realized I so much more prefer thinkers over feelers because there's just so much more logic and actually getting things done. And no unnecessary emotional load.

My mom who's quite likely an INFP as well is just so overwhelming on times. I do love her, but it's crazy how she just wants to rely on others for absolutely everything and never picks up the initiative. Plus logic is non-existent. Even when I give her advice what to do, she rarely does anything to improve her situation...

My ENTP bestie is lovely because he thinks, and also feels on the same time and I really admire that. He has many good qualities and even though we sometimes clash on some things, we always fix it in the end. And that's great.

An ISTP in my life is also really lovely because I've never seen unneeded drama from him. He's really chill and I like that a lot. And after getting close, he's also surprisingly warm, considering the usual "cold type" stereotype about them which is bs. He really feels like a cat tbh, but I enjoy that actually.

I've also talked to other feelers and sometimes they can get annoying. I can't explain it well, but maybe I just enjoy more intelligent thinking and less dreamy pink bubbles type of thing. It seems I'm a 5w4 so this might play a big role in all of this.

Anyone feels the same?

hey all,

when I hit the age of twenty-seven it was like something in me snapped. I was working a dead-end job, single, and living with my parents.

Don't ask me why, but I woke up that birthday and booked random trips, one of which happened to be to Estonia. I landed in Tallinn, went to an Estonian restaurant and ate bear(!!!), and randomly got to know random locals.

I've always been the type of Irishman who could talk to a brick wall and still not be the first to leave, so after a couple hours I got to know a group of Estonians who were headed down to this place in the country called Kabala. There were cabins, a sauna, the Vigala river.

Lads. Oh my god. It was paradise. I still don't really know how I ended up down in that remote part of Estonia, but all we did was eat, drink, read, and swim for like a week. Unreal.

After the week everyone headed back up to Tallinn, I said my goodbyes and had a look at what was around. They'd a ferry to Helsinki. I'd never been to Finland either. Why not!

I headed off to Helsinki and wandered around the town, which was WAY more expensive. I just went for walks, it was grand. For dinner I ticked off another culinary first; reindeer lmao. Then I grabbed a few pints and headed home.

Crazy, exhausting, amazing, unrepeatable experience. Loved it.