u/Haunting-Egg6087

this has been super weird for me, i’ve been doing spells and tapping into my spiritual side more. everytime i bring someone up or say something that person reaches out or someone else brings it up the next day. i recently was saying how someone stopped talking to me yesterday (i was happy about it) and the next day he texts me “wakie wakie” i didn’t want him to but it was soooo weird. there’s so many other examples, today at work it was my coworkers turn to float ( they never let us keep 2 nurses on the unit) i said “you’re gonna be kept here im just speaking it into existence” AND THEY KEPT HER. it is so weird. is this a coincidence or am i predicting things or do i just speak things into existence?? it’s just crazy to me

I used to be very close with a friend F 26 i’m F 29 he’s am 24 and we had a small falling out i still had her brother on social media we had a small thing back a few years ago. we started talking again in october, slept together, and kept talking after everyday for maybe 6 months. it abruptly ended with no explanation he unfollowed me on instagram and never replied when i asked what happened. which im still sad/confused about. i feel like something happened so i dont want to ask him. i reconnected with her during us “talking” but i feel like im lying to her by not telling her in case she ever found out. we immediately clicked and became close again we talk everyday after she invited me out and we both apologized to eachother for what happened due to us falling out before. idk what to do i feel like it’ll lift off my chest if i get it out but i dont know how it would go. i dont want to tell her to get an answer i just feel like im hiding something but i go back and forth everyday and i think it’ll help let it go. HELP and i don’t even know how id tell her or if i leave it ?? but i don’t know if hes uncomfortable if im around or not and in case i run into him i dont want to blind side anyone or make them uncomfortable as they’re close. or am i overstepping telling her because thats his sister. i know im overthinking this but i just don’t know. i know its her brother at the end of the day ofc i know this could risk our friendship but i still feel like i need to but i dont want to make things awkward. it’s also hard for me to bc she does talk about him (not crazily) and it’s just a constant reminder since i have 0 closure and i dont want to cut her off but idk how to move on from it.

I used to be very close with a friend F 26 i’m F 29 he’s am 24 and we had a small falling out i still had her brother on social media we had a small thing back a few years ago. we started talking again in october, slept together, and kept talking after everyday for maybe 6 months. it abruptly ended with no explanation he unfollowed me on instagram and never replied when i asked what happened. which im still sad/confused about. i feel like something happened so i dont want to ask him. i reconnected with her during us “talking” but i feel like im lying to her by not telling her in case she ever found out. we immediately clicked and became close again we talk everyday after she invited me out and we both apologized to eachother for what happened due to us falling out before. idk what to do i feel like it’ll lift off my chest if i get it out but i dont know how it would go. i dont want to tell her to get an answer i just feel like im hiding something but i go back and forth everyday and i think it’ll help let it go. HELP and i don’t even know how id tell her or if i leave it ?? but i don’t know if hes uncomfortable if im around or not and in case i run into him i dont want to blind side anyone or make them uncomfortable as they’re close. or am i overstepping telling her because thats his sister. i know im overthinking this but i just don’t know. i know its her brother at the end of the day ofc i know this could risk our friendship but i still feel like i need to but i dont want to make things awkward.

I used to be very close with a friend F 26 i’m F 29 he’s am 24 and we had a small falling out i still had her brother on social media we had a small thing back a few years ago. we started talking again in october, slept together, and kept talking after everyday for maybe 6 months. it abruptly ended with no explanation he unfollowed me on instagram and never replied when i asked what happened. which im still sad/confused about. i feel like something happened so i dont want to ask him. i reconnected with her during us “talking” but i feel like im lying to her by not telling her in case she ever found out. we immediately clicked and became close again we talk everyday after she invited me out and we both apologized to eachother for what happened due to us falling out before. idk what to do i feel like it’ll lift off my chest if i get it out but i dont know how it would go. i dont want to tell her to get an answer i just feel like im hiding something but i go back and forth everyday and i think it’ll help let it go. HELP and i don’t even know how id tell her or if i leave it ?? but i don’t know if hes uncomfortable if im around or not and in case i run into him i dont want to blind side anyone or make them uncomfortable as they’re close. or am i overstepping telling her because thats his sister. i know im overthinking this but i just don’t know. i know its her brother at the end of the day ofc i know this could risk our friendship but i still feel like i need to but i dont want to make things awkward.