u/Happy-Disaster8915

Im a cis dude and I have a trans (ftm) bestfriend who the other day I believe I have offended because i found a transgender flag and showed it to him and pointed it out saying “look, it’s you.” he seemed pretty hurt and i didn’t mean it at all like that, but i want to be a better friend.

Is it rude i did that? honest answers only please because im not too knowledgeble aboit the trans community.

I’ve had an FP for over a month now who became my FP because he gave me lots of love since he was fresh out of a relationship. however, he got back with the person he broke up with and started distancing himself from me. using petty excuses like “im too busy” and stuff.

it’s really making me mad and he acts like we’re still chill even though hes constantly ghosting me after promising me he wouldn’t anymore.

should I just block him? I know it’ll make me stop waiting, but I really need that push to.