u/H8rOfAll

Community discussion don't listen to women when they say they dislike gender roles

I have literally never meet a woman that dreams about paying for first dates, building a house, doing house chores, having to open the door for themselves etc.

Feminism is all about 'gender equality' but most feminism prefer all of the gender roles that benefit them in a relationship. Meanwhile men are still expected to cook, clean and take care of the kids on top of all the gentleman bs society expects.

The truth is women lie about what they actually want (shocker!!!!). So if you hear a woman say they like gender roles they're lying and you will honestly have a better time avoiding those kinds of people and just sticking to gender norms. Some of them can be toxic but a lot of them exist to help you.

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u/H8rOfAll — 1 day ago

Deep thinker : Racepill is one of the realest things out there

If you can't read the graph just know that it basically says every mixed race marriage is more likely to by with a white person. So outside of the people in your own race, you are more likely to marry a white person (unless you're white then you're more likely to marry an Asian)

Racepill is real but people pretend it is so they can exist inside their safe bubble. Either they want to lie to themselves that society isn't inherently biased or they're incels that enjoy being in their pool of self pity and don't want to hear to they have at least one thing that makes them slightly more appealing.

The world loves white skin; it's the truth. The extent of how much the world loves white men can be argued but anybody who says it's untrue is just wrong.

In America there is literally an entire subspecies of human that come from Asian women and there obsession with white men. If you look at the graph you can see that 15% of marriages with an Asian women are to Asian men which may seem like a small percentage unless you realize that the 2nd highest percentage for each other race is 0.9% or 3.9%.

Even irl I hear dark-skinned chicks fawn over white men who wouldn't give them the time of day. Even though the marriage statistics don't really reflect it, a majority of black and south asian women prefer or at least want white men but those same white men do not give a fuck about those hyp*rgam*us women lol. They go for the white girls because they share the same race.

Even the bp is centered around white features. All over the internet the people that are used as examples for the best appeal are all white people. If you guys talked about what actually matters in dating instead of whining about some dikpill all the time (no woman has ever seen it besides your mom) something would actually get done.

u/H8rOfAll — 2 days ago
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People who 'tolerate' homosexuality might as well just be outwardly homophobic.

I don't understand when or why people saying they "tolerate lgbt became a thing, it's like the ultimate fence sitting position. 90% of the time the people I hear say this are Christians that don't want to be labelled as homophobic but also don't want to go against the homophobes in their community but you simply can't have both.

For example, if I were a white person in the 1800s but I didn't speak up against racism, or do anything against it and just said 'I tolerate black people" would you not have grounds to just call me a racist?

I'm not arguing that every person on Earth needs to become some sort of lgbtq activist waving their flags around but if you engage in a homophobic community and you don't speak up against it and just sit on the fence then it's no different from you being homophobic. You still participate in the homophobic culture even if you are just a bystander.

u/H8rOfAll — 3 days ago

Quick Thought : Feeding into the narcissistic female ego is a billion dollar industry.

When you start to notice it's hard not to. There are a lot of micro-groups that just feed into the female ego and make them feel like they're in control or that they are actually doing something for the world.

First you can look at all these female-dominated psuedo religions. Like zodiac signs or witchcraft. These are literally just the biggest coping. Zodiac signs help women feel like they're in control and it gives them a way to avoid accountability (shocker!!). "You're a good guy but I don't want to commit to you because our stars don't align" "I'm so paranoid because I'm a Libra!" and witchcraft is just a bunch of grown deranged women playing with dirt in the sand and thinking they have control over people's lives its honestly embarrassing.

Then we have the "manifesting group" that think they can create ideal situations for themselves by just believing hard enough. Oprah pushes this hard and she even wrote books about it and the entire 'manifesting' thing has been a trend since at least the 20th century.

Afterwards you have the sheer number of entitled creatures that blame their terrible dating life and social relationships on men for some reason. They say "men are scared to approach women or how they're "too intelligent or too succesful and men don't like that" instead of just admitting to themselves that the risk:reward ratio of being in a relationship with them is completely skewed in their favor.

But these are just a couple examples of how self centered some of these chicks are if you take into account how self centered these people are when you're online you start to see it a lot more.

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u/H8rOfAll — 4 days ago

I literally do not get it. I will be people obsess over anime or K-pop to the extent that it genuinely becomes parasocial and they apply that obsession onto real Asian people. It's even crazier to me when gay or darker-skinned people do it because it's like they don't really like you. China, Japan and Korea are notorious for colorism and homophobia and liking these places so much that fawn over the same culture that doesn't like you and you're also not apart of is a little bit crazy.

u/H8rOfAll — 11 days ago

Being an East Asian is living life on easy mode and nobody can convince me otherwise.

Why are there and entire subsection of women that fawn over "Asian" men for no reason? They say they like "Asians" but what they really mean is Jung Nam Kook. I doubt they could even name any country outside of China Japan and Korea. These girls are barely any different from the animetards and otakus that simp for Asian girls but instead of watching anime and playing Yu-gi-oh when they were younger, they are grown ass women thinking that real East Asian men will treat them like the main characters in the K-Dramas or J-Dramas they watch. They're so delusional it's embarrassing. They also act like East Asian men are going to act like the pop stars that they see on the internet when these people are trained and paid to act like that. The amount of women that self insert into books, shows and other media is larger than what people may think but the female tards that do it for East Asian men do it on an entirely different level. These people walk among us btw.

u/H8rOfAll — 11 days ago

I love how when a guy flirts with a girl at her workplace and puts him in a situation he can't walk away from he's a creep but when I girl does it she "just putting herself out there!". Most of the women that claim to care about not making people uncomfortable only really care when it's 40 year old albert trying to hit on girls. Not when it's Chad or another girl doing the same thing. This applies to more things outside of just flirting with people while they're at work but that's an entirely different conversation.

u/H8rOfAll — 13 days ago

I know this sounds cruel but women who were abused don't deserve any type of relationship until they have went to therapy. Do what you want with your own life but it gets to a point when you start making other's lives worse especially when they've invested 10 years into you.

This poster is "falling" for some guy at work meanwhile she has another dude at home. She literally talks about thinking about divorce and airs out her marital drama on Reddit, but when people call her out for emotional cheating they're "not in our marriage therefore your opinion on this does not matter"

The entire post is just cope and looking for sympathy which the commenters give her because they are women. She gets no backlash from any of the top comments and the ones that criticize her have little upvotes or are in the negatives. They literally blame all of this one her "trauma" which may be true but why does the husband have to be subjected to this?

If the roles had been reversed and it was a girl on GirlDinnerDiaries posting about how her man has been through trauma and told her he has a crush on a girl at work and their relationship "lost the spark" the comments would crucify him and use him as an example to talk about how trash men are. But no, this chick was poor and had to move a lot so she gets to think about hoping on some guys dick meanwhile the man she's been with her entire life is at home.

Also, this guy is just another cuck. Either that or she didn't detail his response accurately which wouldn't be crazy given how self centered she is in this post. Wdym your girl tells you she's lost the spark and she's crushing on another guy and you're just fine with it? I guess some guys will just settle for anything.

Don't waste your time on women that have been abused guys; when she gets comfortable in the relationship all of her problems will suddenly become your problems.

u/H8rOfAll — 13 days ago
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After existing for 30 years and having experienced, seen and heard everything that I have, I can confidently say that I genuinely don't trust the male sex. Like at best I think there are * some* genuine, good men that are exceptions, like rare unicorns, but that's it. Last night I forgot to take my medication for anxiety and today I was so tired that I took a nap for 10 minutes and had a nightmare about 4 men that were stalking me near my backyard. So ofcourse later while I was walking with my dog I felt a bit uneasy, even though in general I don't feel unsafe in my neighborhood at all. When I stay inside I feel like I constantly hear awful news stories about men doing awful things to women but when I go outside, I feel like I am being exposed to sexist comments and views that I have to hear, like yesterday. I already have an appointment soon to go talk about my depression and anxiety, and i'm sure this is one topic that will be brought up. But I don't think therapy can fix this for me. Because I genuinely believe that most evidence out there, even evidence that has existed for centuries, will support my beliefs. I don't know if it's black and white thinking that is just getting more extreme because I am going through some personal stuff, but so far through my entire life I have been betrayed or been misled everytime I put my trust and faith into a man. And looking into everything that has happened in history, how can we believe most men are good people? Maybe this has turned into an irrational phobia, but I don't know. I wish more men could prove me that they are great, because I have never seen it in real life.

u/AquaticKomi — 16 days ago

I don't consider myself any type of cel but 90% of incel/bp problems are just due to decades worth of desperate men and their "chasing".

Wanna make money? Some chicks like Sophie Rain has more money than you and your family will ever see in their lives because they're htb and cater to simps.

Wanna get a girlfriend? Some desperate cuck will always be willing to bend over backwards and outcompete you for a hypergamous woman.

Wanna try to meet people on dating apps? Ltb and Sub5 women literally can get 80 matches and mtn can barely get 15.

Wanna have a decent relationship but you're broke? Some 'provider man' will always have an advantage over you. 90% of women like guys that can get them things and the other 10% are lying.

The existence of men that chase women and have no standards will ultimately fuck us all over because women will always have some type of cushion to fall on while men don't.

u/H8rOfAll — 18 days ago