Community discussion don't listen to women when they say they dislike gender roles
I have literally never meet a woman that dreams about paying for first dates, building a house, doing house chores, having to open the door for themselves etc.
Feminism is all about 'gender equality' but most feminism prefer all of the gender roles that benefit them in a relationship. Meanwhile men are still expected to cook, clean and take care of the kids on top of all the gentleman bs society expects.
The truth is women lie about what they actually want (shocker!!!!). So if you hear a woman say they like gender roles they're lying and you will honestly have a better time avoiding those kinds of people and just sticking to gender norms. Some of them can be toxic but a lot of them exist to help you.