When did you start dating again?
I’ve been a single mom to my son since he was 6 months old. He’s almost 18 months old now. The thought about dating again seems nice but also petrifying. So many men (and women) are vile. Someone can seem so sweet, and things can go sour at any given moment. Im at the point if im dating, im thinking long term. Is this person safe for me to leave my son with? Can they handle a kid screaming and crying for hours with no given explanation? Are they stable? Will they treat my son the way he deserves to be treated?
My son’s father met someone and moved on same month - engaged moved in with and married some girl all within 6 months of us splitting. I cannot fathom, but not the point.
My son’s safety will always be #1. I’ve come to peace with if I never end up with someone again if it meant he will be okay. But he deserves a family just as much as I do. I’d love to have another kid one day. However the thought of going through this again is terrifying.
I know “everyone isn’t a villain” but you TRULY never know someone or their intentions.
I guess I’m just looking for insights and experiences from other single parents.