u/Gold-Situation-7055

Anyone can guide me I'm rookie, i started gym at 19 🥀 ( because parents permission) but just a week passed, my body can even lift 7.5 dumbells i don't know my arms got freezed, and my body feels so much pain next day, last time my arm's got so much swelled now its normal but still I'm concerned why i can't lift weights over 10kg my body starts shaking, i suffered from tb last years that's the reason how to overcome this? And can i growth my height now?

I don't smoke or drink but they do, i thinks it's normal to be virgin I'm not gay but I'll be ready when someone I'll meet and become comfortable with her i don't like to hookup with a stranger girl, they say u will never find a virgin girl in life, be like us,

I never kissed or hug someone i only dated one girl till now but she left so i never dated after that i never moved on from her , that's the reason they always mock, i sometimes think ,i should leave my group but I'll be lonely after that, how can anyone just use a stranger body for fun and never talk again thats really horrible and cheap , i would only do with whom i love and would be permanent in my life, according to them thats not what genz do, but isn't it normal to be virgin at 19 ?

I just want to try one time to get ivy college but didn't know what to do ?