
Most men are controlled by women.
Even men who see themselves as being super alpha and masculine are controlled by women. On a very basic level, this is because they want something from women in a much more thirsty way than women want it from them, and that thing is ofcourse sex (along with validation and approval). This thirst men have makes them easy to control from the perspective of women. If you want something from someone more than they want it from you, they'll obviously have power over you, and this is the position most men are in.