u/GlitteringMilkshake

Williamsburg/greenpoint has so many dachshunds it’s amazing to me there isn’t already some time of meetup or group for dachshund owners here.

My husband is in SLAA and thinks every woman is interested in him. (This has been a huge problem at his work, and he usually goes to men’s meetings) but tonight we attended an ACA meeting (where many women were present and shared they were also in SLAA) and he said he thought they were all interested and “advertising” themselves to him. Now to me- that’s INSANE. He’s never these women, they don’t know he’s in SLAA, so the fact that he took multiple (different) women’s shares as them “advertising” themselves to him is so delusional I don’t know how to even talk to him. This sees beyond just what he calls “the disease” of SLAA and into some kind of disconnection with reality.

Is this something that is common in SLAA or is this something closer to a mental health/medication issue?

My husband is in SLAA and said he wants to go to co-ed meetings which I just don’t understand. I don’t even understand why there are mixed meetings between men and women for something like this. That feels like holding AA meeting in an open bar. Is it not just an easier way to find their next qualifier?