u/Glittering-Dig-4311

(USA) Letter from GM + Rant
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(USA) Letter from GM + Rant

This list was stapled to everyone’s paycheck not that long ago. He makes some valid points but the grammar and stuff is kinda off… (english is his first language). He also has not enforced these rules since. My coworkers/managers are still rude to guests, overnight shift is always 15-30min late, most not in full uniform, and everyone is always wearing earbuds. Genuinely for over a year now, the overnight shift has never been on time, meaning I get off work late. They all come in high, and not in proper uniform, talking on the phone, have their airpods in the whole shift, are rude to customers and tell them we are out of items instead of grabbing it from the back or replacing it (like frappe base or soda syrup). Corporate and our GM do nothing about it. We constantly get complaints and corporate has been cracking down on morning and midshift employees, when in reality overnight is the problem.

Context: I work at a location near a university and popular night club. Usually most busy past 9:30pm. 24 hour location that is often closes the lobby overnight. Typical shifts have 5-6 crew members and 1-2 shift leads.

Managers come in with airpods and bonnets too and are extremely unprofessional. Often times they send me (Crew trainer, 21 F) to deal with customers problems because they have cussed out customers and get irritated easily. My coworkers are also very rude to guests and have a bad attitude over all. Many times when overnight employees come in late, my managers will tell me I can leave because it’s not my problem anymore and overnight should have been on time. This is true, but we are extremely busy during this shift switch, and no body is there to fulfill orders. I mentioned this to my manager and she said “oh well, they can wait”. Idk if it’s just me, but I would feel terrible making 20+ orders wait for over 20 minutes for their food, so I stay and make it.

My coworkers and managers also are constantly on their phones, even being on facetime or making tiktoks during their shift for hours. For example, a coworker of mine in the drive thru window will prop her phone up on the sweet tea and have it on facetime while she is handing customers their food and drinks. Grill guys will also have phone in one hand while making sandwiches with the other, and often get orders wrong, it’s also unsanitary. A lot of times, orders take forever to get done because everyone is on their phones and I have to be the one to do everything.

We also have this employee (16 F) who has been working there for about 2 months now. I am the only crew trainer at my location and I only work 4 days a week because i’m a full time college student. So she started working when I was off work, and was trained by someone else. When I went in for my next shift, she was still in training so I was working with her in back cash. At my location, we typically have 1 person on headset that takes both drive thru lanes and cashes them out, so for training purposes, we both had on a headset. I demonstrated taking orders and how to use the headset buttons, showed her the menu, how to customize sandwiches, all the big things. After about an hour or two of her watching me take the orders, I had her press the buttons on the POS while I spoke on the headset. Understandably, I had to help her find some things and do weird modifications. I asked her if she felt comfortable trying to talk on the headset to take an order and she said yes, and tried taking an order. She doesn’t greet them, doesn’t ask about the app, just says “What’s your order”. (Mind you I had been taking orders for like 3 hours now, greeting and asking about the app every time and explaining to her why thats important). She doesn’t ask any follow up questions in the order, for example they say they want a big mac meal she just says “okay” and goes silent. She doesn’t ask medium or large, what to drink, anything else. So I start quietly telling her to ask those questions. And she does, but it’s like “What drink?”, “What else do you want?”, “Are you done?”. I try telling her other ways to phrase the questions but she still does it her way. After 6 hours of the shift she still cannot take an order on her own and I don’t know how to help her because she says she knows what to do. Anyway, fast forward to now (2 months later), she has been trained on back cash, bagging, window, and front counter but frequently messes up orders. When she takes orders, she rings up the wrong sandwiches, doesn’t make things a meal, puts the wrong modification or doesn’t modify at all, etc. And when bagging, she leaves out items or uses the wrong size cups for drinks. Multiple people have tried training her with no success. Her older sister (17 F) also works there and her mom is the overnight shift lead, so she doesn’t get fired or written up for the mistakes. She is also extremely slow, always on her phone, and does not do anything unless specifically asked to. Like if the sweet tea runs out, she will not brew more unless someone asks her to or if there are no fries, she will not drop a basket unless told to.

As the only crew trainer, I feel like I failed/I am not a good trainer but we have another new employee (19 M) this week and after 3 hours of training from me he has been able to work on his own without help (besides occasional questions on stuff he hasn’t learned yet).

I am often working by myself when we are understaffed because my managers enjoy sitting in the office on their phones. Like over college spring break, I would be doing front counter, bagging delivery, bagging drive thru & handing it out, on headset taking orders and cashing them out. The only time my manager would help me was if I yelled across the store for help, she would do front counter/delivery during the rush and then go sit back down. One time I even had to make the food on grill/table on top of all of that. While we are not a big store or super busy, it is still a lot of work at times for one person, especially with big orders or multiple customers. I’m getting so burnt out and don’t know how much longer I can last.

u/Glittering-Dig-4311 — 2 days ago

Roommate from hell

Hi!! This is a long one so buckle in. 

Last August, I (21 F) moved into a student living type apartment near my university. There were 3 people (20-21 F) already living here and they are best friends. It started off fine, we aren’t really friends but we are chill. 

There are 2 bathrooms and 4 bedrooms so 2 of us share each bathroom. I put a bath mat next to the tub/shower in my shared bathroom so water wouldn’t get all over the floor. A couple weeks later, ITS GONE. After a month of not having it (and slipping on water), i confronted in my roommate, we’ll call her Dee (21 F). I asked what happened to the mat and she said she threw it away because it was dirty. I said it could have been cleaned and asked her to get a new one and she said she ordered one on amazon but it was delayed. It’s been 6+ months now and still hasn’t been replaced. Another time, I was using the bathroom in the morning and realized my toothbrush was wet, but i hadn’t used it yet. Dee had used my toothbrush… I threw it away and got a new one. ANOTHER TIME, I was getting in the shower and my shaving razor was not in its usual spot.. Suspicious… I pick it up to put it back and THERE IS DARK, BLACK HAIR IN IT. Dee has black hair, I have light brown. She used my RAZOR. I threw it out and got a new one. Mind you, Dee has her own toothbrush and razor that are different color/brand than mine. 

Throughout living here, I have found my shampoo, body wash, face wash and shaving cream in different places in the shower and are running out quicker than they should. Dee also uses bath towel that I leave in the bathroom. I noticed this on Halloween when i found a big red stain on my light blue towel and saw her instagram post with red on her face in the same shade. She wiped her makeup on my towel. Additionally, anytime I replace the toilet paper in the bathroom, the roll would be almost completely used by the end of the day, which has since caused me to bring my toilet roll with me to the bathroom each time and bring it back to my bedroom. 

I would also like to mention that in February, Dee was arrested for being a repeat shoplifter at a chain grocery store, and was let off with community service. Also, any time I leave food in the kitchen fridge or freezer it gets eaten and I’m forced to keep my food in my tiny mini fridge in my room. 

This isn’t even all though. My roommates do not lock the front door when they leave or come in and there have been multiple occasions where the door has been wide open with no body home. They never bring their keys either so if I lock it, they bang on the door and spam call my phone until I open it. When left unlocked, their other friends (2 male and 2 female) let themselves in and make themselves at home. I have come home from class during the day to a man sleeping on our couch or rummaging through the fridge many times, with my roommates not home. They are kinda chill so I can deal with this as long as I lock my bedroom. The thing I CANNOT deal with is that every night they invite their friends over from any time from 11pm-4am and they are extremely loud for hours. The walls are pretty thin and it’s a tiny apartment. I can hear every word they are saying because their inside voices are yelling level. They will scream and laugh, move the furniture, and smoke inside too. I work 4 days a week and have multiple classes 5 days a week on top of homework and studying. I get home from work around 10:30pm-11:30pm most times and just want to shower and fall asleep so I can wake up for class at 8am but it is nearly impossible when 4-6 (or more when they have parties) people are screaming in the living room that shares a wall with my bedroom. I have recently overheard them say that I “am going to hate them” because they’re screaming (and they’re not wrong!). 

Going along with their friends letting themselves in, one of their friends (21 F) constantly comes over and sleeps on our couch. When Dee arrives home they smoke and are very loud. Eventually they will both fall asleep on the couches. Multiple times this has happened, I get up use the kitchen or have to leave the house for class or other things. Despite being as quiet as possible, Dee wakes up and gets mad at me for turning on the kitchen light or making noise. I apologize and hurry up to finish what i’m doing. The problem is, once I get back home in the afternoon or evening (usually around 2pm or later) THEY ARE STILL ASLEEP on the couches and are woken up by the noise of me opening the door and using the kitchen. Again, they are mad at me and tell me to stop which I can’t help it if I want to cook food during the day, she should sleep IN HER BEDROOM. 

One time, I had gotten home from work late around 11:30pm and just wanted to cook something quick as I hadn’t eaten in 12+ hours. I put my pot in the kitchen, fill it with water and turn the stove on, and went to grab ingredients from my mini fridge. In that 2 minute window, Dee and her friend got off the couch and went into the kitchen (very small, if someone is cooking at the stove and someone is doing dishes in the sink, your butts would be touching). They start pulling stuff from the fridge and say they’re gonna cook. As I walk back to the kitchen, ingredients in hand, they tell me that they are using the stove now and I have to wait to cook. They push me out and I ended up going to bed without food because they used the kitchen for like an hour. 

Dee and I share a tub shower and it is constantly CLOGGED so bad the water does not drain AT ALL. I went home to my parents house last Christmas and came back after 2 weeks to the most disgusting, MURKY, slimy, foul smelling water in the tub, filled up like half way. Obviously that was not my doing, so I figured Dee would clean it out. I don’t shower the night I get home because of the water. The next day, she still hasn’t cleaned the tub all day and I ended up spending an hour trying to unclog the drain and scrubbing the slime and sludge off the tub. Fast forward a few months to March and I go on a weekend trip for my birthday. I come back and again there is water in the tub, not draining, kinda murky but not as bad. I figure she will clean it but 2 days go by and it’s still there. I decide just to clean it but I cannot find my drain snake anywhere and I ask her if she knows where it is. She said our other roommate probably used it but doesn’t know (other roommate had no idea). So basically Dee got rid of my drain snake and I was left unclogging the drain with my scissors, a pencil, and my fingers. After getting chunks of black hair from the drain, I pour the chemical cleaner and let it sit, and finally the shower drains fully. I confront Dee asking her to next time make sure the water drains fully and she said she didn’t leave water in there. I said I had been away all weekend and no one else showers in our bathroom, she looked embarrassed and says she’ll make sure it drains next time. Every time Dee showers, she manages to get so much water on the floor, its actually crazy and she does not think to put a towel down or dry it. She also wears her shoes in the house and somehow they are always dirty, so many times I enter the bathroom and the floor is covered in mud and dirt that she also does not clean up. This has caused me to slip and fall or get my socks wet on various occasions. 

The grossest part of all, is TWICE now, I have gone into used the bathroom and there have been used, unwrapped tampons in the trash can and what I imagine is drops of period blood on the floor next to the toilet or on the seat. She also does not clean this up, and I do not want to clean it for her and it will stay on the floor for days until I eventually give in and wipe it up. 

Our kitchen sink also has a wicked smell coming from the drain which no one has cleaned out for months and I refuse to clean it because I didn’t cause it. All of my roommates are dirty and lazy. Any time they drop food on the floor, spill on the counter, or make a mess, they will not clean it and will leave the counters sticky, floor covered in food, and even opened containers on the counter. This has caused bugs in the kitchen. Additionally, none of them like to take out the trash so when it fills up, they will either leave it there and put more stuff on top of the can, or tie the bag and put it outside our front door. Both of these attract flies and bugs and smell horrible. 

Overall, living here for the better part of a year has been brutal and I feel like i’m always cleaning up after them and losing sleep because of their late night parties. I have kinda been training them to bring their front door key with them as I lock the door when I leave and come home. But still many times they bang on the door and call me until I open it. In recent times, I have turned my phone on do not disturb and ignored them as “payback” and do not let them in, however guilt takes over and I unlock the door within 20-30 minutes. Most of the time it is around 2am so I just say I was asleep and didnt hear my phone ring. 

Any time I confront Dee about the mess or using my things, she claims it wasn’t her and that she doesn’t know how it happened. I am unsure what to do, but I wish there was some way to get back at her or teach her a lesson. Not exactly revenge, just something to show her how awful it is living with her. I do not want to go to extreme measures or do anything that will be harmful. What should I do to deal with this situation?

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