How did you know it was time to separate yourself from your partner that suffers from BPD? I don’t want to give up on her, but I’ve been as strong as I can for 12 years. Just for context, we are a lesbian couple, we met at 15 & 16, have been together the entire time and got married 2 years ago. There’s nothing I wouldn’t do to try to keep us together.
EDIT: WE ARE BOTH WOMAN!!! (Not like it matters lol)
I have recently tried to start a craft business since my wife bought me a Cricut for Christmas. I have also been investing in it with my own funds too.
Well my wife likes to make random things for no good purpose and print usless things that would later just end up in the trash.
Am I wrong from trying to explain to her that she can’t just continue to do these things because I am really trying to get a business started and off the ground. I cant possibly break-even if I have to keep buying and replacing things when I haven’t even made a good enough profit.
Also to add, when I do try to tell her this she then gets pissed and tells me not to use anything she bought as a gift for me.
My partner and I received custody of my little sister when she was five years old and she’s now going on 14. We’ve tried every means of discipline outside of putting our hands on her and nothing seems to be working.
My other sister and my wife seemed to think it would be a good idea to start popping her, but I feel that it’s way too late and it goes against my morals. She is currently failing her classes, even with having an IEP, she can’t seem to do chores correctly or stay on any task that I give her, and once she turned 13, it seemed that her attitude has finally kicked in. She’s not calling me out of my name or doing anything too drastic just a little puffs and puffs and stop aways.
My question is, Am I wrong for not wanting to hit her, and I go against my morals to do so.
My mother already caused enough trauma for the both of us, and i definitely don’t want to add to it. I also believe she may have ADHD and think hitting her will just have a negative effect.