u/Glad_Difficulty_5008

AITBF for liking my friends boyfriend?

Okay, Okay I know this sounds extremely messed up and VERY wrong on my part but before you judge me let me at least try to defend myself.

So in around early October I met this guy at my school, who I’ll call Jack (not his name) and he was very annoying and I told myself to just avoid him, however in homeroom I got sat next to him and my friend, who I’ll call Piper (not her name). So against my will (Piper forced me) I got in a a friend group with Piper and Jack.

Fast forward to around mid November I started having feelings for Jack and with the way I am, I fall hard but it usually doesn’t last longer then a month (clearly this lasted), so I expected it to fade away and didn’t tell anyone. However, in January-ish Piper told me that they were dating, and I was CRUSHED. I congratulated her but I thought I was gonna cry so I walked away.

Now here we are, there still dating and I’m still in that group with them (we don’t hang out as often anymore for obvious reasons). I turn into a tomato every single time I talk to Jack, which is an issue. Jack also has a tendency to stare at me like A LOT, and does everything in his power to make me laugh.

So, People of Reddit, AITBF?

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u/Glad_Difficulty_5008 — 3 days ago

Am I the jerk for liking one of my friends boyfriends?

Okay, Okay I know this sounds extremely messed up and VERY wrong on my part but before you judge me let me at least try to defend myself. So in around early October I met this guy at my school, who I’ll call Jack (not his name) and he was very annoying and I told myself to just avoid him, however in homeroom I got sat next to him and my friend, who I’ll call Piper (not her name). So against my will (Piper forced me) I got in a a friend group with Piper and Jack. Fast forward to around mid November I started having feelings for Jack and with the way I am, I fall hard but it usually doesn’t last longer then a month (clearly this lasted), so I expected it to fade away and didn’t tell anyone. However, in January-ish Piper told me that they were dating, and I was CRUSHED. I congratulated her but I thought I was gonna cry so I walked away. Now here we are, there still dating and I’m still in that group with them (we don’t hang out as often anymore for obvious reasons). I turn into a tomato every single time I talk to Jack, which is an issue. Jack also has a tendency to stare at me like A LOT, and does everything in his power to make me laugh. So, People of Reddit, am I the jerk?

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u/Glad_Difficulty_5008 — 4 days ago