u/Glad111

Hello people,

I write here seeking your help as I feel desperate and lost. Me 'M/33' and my ex '30/F' have broke up after like 4 months together for something stupid I did.

It was a distance relationship, I took a flight to see her and spend some time together and the next day I received a message from a girl that I used to talk to and when she saw that she got alarmed and really mad and ended up kicking out of her house… i understand I did something wrong, and even worse: I deleted the conversation out of fear or nervousness - and then the worst thing: she realized that that girl had her blocked (the don’t know each other) when I asked the other girl she said that she blocks a lot of accounts when they keep showing always on her profile… I don’t know, not my business and I respect this decision.

This whole thing obviously affected me in a crazy way… 8 hours flights, having to end up in hotel alone, humiliated, anxious, lost… but I guess I deserve it. My mistake.

I have never met this person, she lives in a different country where I haven’t ever been, and we only talked online.

Now after almost a month, Im feeling desperate to try to do something to apologize and recover her… anything, I loved this woman, I love her and I want to keep loving her. I know this must hate me or maybe already moved on, but something inside me tells me to really try.

I'm thinking to travel again to her country and try to surprise her with something… I don’t know what exactly to do, but im really willing to do literally anything. I want to sincerely apologize, show her my intentions, win back her trust and let her be my baby girl.

Can you please help me? Anyone been in some similar situation? Something that worked?

Hello people,

I write here seeking your help as I feel desperate and lost. Me 'M/33' and my ex '30/F' have broke up after like 4 months together for something stupid I did.

It was a distance relationship, I took a flight to see her and spend some time together and the next day I received a message from a girl that I used to talk to and when she saw that she got alarmed and really mad and ended up kicking out of her house… i understand I did something wrong, and even worse: I deleted the conversation out of fear or nervousness - and then the worst thing: she realized that that girl had her blocked (the don’t know each other) when I asked the other girl she said that she blocks a lot of accounts when they keep showing always on her profile… I don’t know, not my business and I respect this decision.

This whole thing obviously affected me in a crazy way… 8 hours flights, having to end up in hotel alone, humiliated, anxious, lost… but I guess I deserve it. My mistake.

I have never met this person, she lives in a different country where I haven’t ever been, and we only talked online.

Now after almost a month, Im feeling desperate to try to do something to apologize and recover her… anything, I loved this woman, I love her and I want to keep loving her. I know this must hate me or maybe already moved on, but something inside me tells me to really try.

I'm thinking to travel again to her country and try to surprise her with something… I don’t know what exactly to do, but im really willing to do literally anything. I want to sincerely apologize, show her my intentions, win back her trust and let her be my baby girl.

Can you please help me? Anyone been in some similar situation? Something that worked?

Hello people 🫡

I’ve been wanting to write here for a while... I’m not Russian, but over the past few years I’ve developed a genuine interest and appreciation for Russia (after visiting few times) the culture, language, history, people… And as I am currently on a transitional period in my life, I started thinking of moving to Moscow for some months to disconnect a bit, live a different experience, study the language (it’s high time to speak Russian!) and make some new friends.

I'm a 33 years old, from the south of Europe and even with my Mediterranean soul, I truly feel comfortable and connected with Russia!

I would like some info/advice from locals… mainly about the requirements, is it easy to find a job, what kind of companies accept foreigners, etc… As a European, with my e-Visa I can stay up to one month inside the country, so my plan is, first, to spend a month only studying the language and then try to make it officially my new home!

Any suggestions of areas where to live for a temporary rental? Any recommended language academies?

And in general, If anyone has any advice, experiences to share, both locals and expats, feel free to comment or message me)

Спасибо!