Im not sure how to explain this, but i wondered if anyone felt the same? Im fairly self-aware and im confident but not particularly any more confident in sex or anything related.
But to explain a little more, when im having sexual relations of any kind, the thought of what i look like in the moment turns me on?
im not sure if its a common thing because i know alot of people like for example when sex is infront of a mirror, but is that because you like to watch the other person, yourself or both?
for example, i will do small things during sex that if i was the other person, i know it would turn me on, (e.g, arching my back more, or digging my nails into their back) and 9 times out of 10, the other person enjoys it too, but im more imaging what it would feel like if someone were to do that to me?
i get this alot with guys, women too but this feeling is definitely less common when i have sex with a woman, is that something unrelated?
im only 20, so ive had a fair amount of sexual relations but im not super experienced, is this a common thing?