





I'm both, a highschool drop out and unemployed I used to be a NEET for several years until I chose culinary school, hey it's better than nothing right?
When I was a teenager, I'd say it was more normalized to be a complete "loser", dropping out of school from here and there, not working, living off your parents money, but as I'm growing into my 20s, I realized that my brain is still stuck in my 14 years old self, maybe I'm more mature but I don't feel like a "real" adult, I had this view about adults that they're all a "member os society?" Like they work, have social life, completed highschool or at least find employment despite being a drop out, have driving license etc but me? I'm kinda like a child in an adult body, no job, a drop out, living off my mom's money, never bothered to take a driving test, and even if I did my country's economy is cooked and won't even be able to buy a car, even my mom doesn't own one, I feel like my age is growing older while my brain is stuck in this teenage brain, my depression stayed with me, my social anxiety got better but still there, people used to sympathize with me when I was a teenager and say things like "it'll get better when you grow up" "you're still learning" but now even people's words changed, and I can't blame them, "you're gonna fail in life" "you already wasted enough time, it's time to get better" "if you don't save yourself nobody will save you" "you'll end up in the streets" "your mom will be gone one day" etc..
if you're in a similar situation as me, do you feel like a real adult? Do you feel like a teenager is an adult body? Or do you feel like a "failed" adult?
Someone posted about how we lack showers or people using perfume on body odor, and I lowkey agree, I'm really tired of suffering fel metero and class because of this, but instead of shaming, there's a deeper societal issue on why Tunisians may struggle with hygiene.
For girls, a lot of our parents told us that showering during our period makes us sick, yes my grandmother also said the same thing and this is a MYTH. Please shower during your period, it's NOT harmful, the whole world does it, I do it and I never get sick, so girls, please don't listen to that myth and shower during your period.
For boys, I know some hygiene practices may be slightly related to femininity and some guys can even get mocked for using deodorant and shaving armpits, but don't let these kinds of people bring you down, you're better than them by staying clean.
So let's get started, preferably shower everyday, especially in summer, no exception unless the water is cut or you're homeless or something.
If your body started making body odor, don't just drown it in perfume PLEASE that makes it worse. Use deodorant right away (if you can't shower like when you're working or something), these are the deodorants I personally use . and once you're home, take a shower. Remember it's way better to shower and not use perfume instead of not showering and drowning in perfume.
If you're someone with sensitive hair that can't handle washing everyday, just tie your hair up and wash your body.
If you're someone who struggles more with body odor due to genetics, you can prevent it by shaving your armpits and washing the area often, and you can always visit a doctor since sometimes it can be related to something deeper.
Change your socks everyday and wash your feet well with either soap or body wash, I can't count how many people I see wearing chleka and white socks while the underneath is deep gray with dirt, please don't be that person, it takes less than 30 seconds to change your socks and maybe 5 minutes if you wanna wash your feet separately.
Change your underwear everyday, no exceptions,
don't wear the same clothes for a whole week, especially if you sweat in them.
I'm seeing some hygiene improvement in the country, like I used to go to the gym and never ever smelled body odor there, everyone was clean, but some people are definitely still far behind, especially in schools and public transportations
If you're a parent, please don't scare children away from using deodorant or washing during their period saying it's harmful, other people's noses are gonna suffer because of this, so unlearn this myth and teach your children hygiene since they're young.
But that's it, I really want my people and my country to be cleaner, I'm really sick of seeing garbage everywhere on the ground (but that's a whole topic) and some people's lack of hygiene, so I hope we all improve, there's no shame in learning to be better 🫶🏻
I used to be pretty decent on pvp when I was on mobile, but once I switched to Nintendo, I can't aim anymore, I still struggle with which buttons to swap to make pvp games easier, I keep getting comb-ed with absolutely no chance to hit my enemy, even on mobile I wasn't this horrible, I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or if switch requires even more training to become skilled, or maybe if I'm just competing against pro PC players (for example me a level one can get matched with level 70+ on hive), or maybe Minecraft is just harder on switch, I don't know, I'm really losing interest in multiplayer games as a whole because of this, I have a huge problem with aim and hitting players and my sensitivity is 80. if anyone plays on switch and they're pretty decent I'll appreciate any help, like I'm just only "bad" but absolutely horrible that I'd probably get 1 kill each 50 death.
I posted here because even YouTube pvp tips only include mobile and PC or PS5, never switch players.