u/Fun_River_7290

My husband has been deleting and reinstalling Firefox private browsing on his phone since June … mostly around the time he leaves 5am (when he’s on his way to work) , later in the evening and when he’s in the bathroom. My mind obviously went to porn. Which after asking him twice he confessed but that doesn’t add up with driving or when he is at work.. maybe I’m paranoid but to me it just doesn’t add up.

Mind you he has been doing this behavior everyday since June 2025 and I’m just finding out... anyone have advice or experience?

The past couple times my husband and I have argued he has brought up us NOT doing IVF anymore.

Back story.. I had my tubes tied when I was younger and we had decided we want another child.. I know. But I had my tubes tied when I was 21 anyways.. we went in for the IVF consultation and we got into an argument . The argument was about vacuuming. I was a little frustrated because I wanted to relax and he had asked me to vaccum up his mess. Then he told me I hadn’t cleaned up after him for 6 months.. which is a straight up lie. I clean up after him daily. I said that’s not true and walked away. He came up and made a big deal out of me saying that, so I told him I didn’t want to have this conversation because our kids were up. He continued.. and I said again I wouldn’t have the conversation. He said well you know what I need to be heard in this relationship we are holding off on the baby. Whenever I don’t do something his way and it turns into something similar he throws having a baby in my face.