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So this isn't a random guy.. we met at work years ago. Instant chemistry, we dated after 6 months of knowing each other. He initiated. He ran away when he found out I am a virgin because he didn't want the responsibility of being my first but we spoke about it before he did.

I was okay.. I didn't feel resentment , I moved on and we stayed on good terms.

I then reach out 5 months ago to reconnect because I remembered him. We flirted.. for a week then he ghosted.

Last week we bumped into each other again, ended up going out, he told me he was dating a girl from tinder and had been on 2 dates with her when he ghosted me.

I told him he needs to communicate that and be honest instead of ghost. I would have been happy for him, it's fine.

It has been since saturday that we went out.... no word from him yet.

Am I being ghosted AGAIN ? should I just close the door completely with this guy?

Hi guys, so I met this guy years ago and we dated back then. He then cut things off as he felt overwhelmed by his new job and he found out I was a virgin so didn't want the responsibility.

We stayed on good terms but vaguely in touc and a few months ago - I reached out because I remembered him and I was feeling flirtatious. We flirted for a week then he ghosted.

We now reconnected. He has let slip that he had ghosted me because he didnt know hwo to tell me that he had started dating someone new.

I don't know how I feel about this.. Is this someone I should considering dating now? My ego has taken a hit for sure 😂