u/FrostyYam8297

I (20F) took mifepristone 18.5 hours ago and misoprostol 15.5 hours ago. Around an hour post-insertion I began experiencing cramping, which only got more intense and currently is very painful. However I haven’t even lightly spotted yet. I am also feeling weak but that’s the only other side effect im experiencing.

At the appointment, they couldn’t find a sac with either a regular ultrasound or transvaginal. They took blood tests and my hcg levels were 1,214. They told me it could just be too early but they couldn’t rule out ectopic.

At what point do i become concerned, and is it still possible this is a normal intrauterine pregnancy that is just taking time to pass? I am worried because I have been having such intense cramping for a while I would assume something would come out now.

any similar stories with successful endings (or honestly, even bad ones) would be appreciated as well as any advice. I did call and they told me to wait the full 24 hours but i cant help and be a little anxious.

my bf and i are going to be spending the summer apart for the most of it and we've never been away from each other for more than a couple weeks so we wrote eachother little letters before he left. in his he writes "at times its been scary or difficult to accept how strong my feelings are for you, perhaps because deep down i dont feel like i deserve someone as perfect as you." i feel really sad if he actually feels this way. i think hes amazing and i love him so much. but i also have heard this phrase can mean someone is going to leave the relationship / preparing to so im a little scared because i really dont want to get broken up with. he did buy me a flight to come visit him in 3 weeks so im hoping im just being ridiculous and have nothing to worry about! do you think im overthinking it?