u/Frosty-Vermicelli816

BEFORE anyone comes at me in the comments, I need to lay it all out for you. My boyfriend and I almost lost our relationship because I had suspicions that he was intentionally hiding our relationship from people on his social media.

He has a much larger follower count compared to mine, and about 90% of the people he follows are women.

I asked him about it calmly back then, and he told me it was because he wasn’t ready to go public with me, so I respected that.

About five months went by, and I was getting ready to move into a new place to live alone, closer to my university. He started opening up to the idea of spending most of his days there with me (basically almost living together).

But I told him I couldn’t let that happen unless he was ready to go public with me. Two people sharing a space and calling it home is so intimate, and the idea that I was still hidden publicly didn’t sit right with me. So I told him this, and he said he couldn’t make that change for me, so I chose to break up with him.

A day later, I called to get a proper goodbye from both of us, and then he told me he didn’t want to break up anymore and was ready to make our relationship public, since, according to him, it meant more to him than his followers.

Days passed, and it was almost a month since we got back together. Then one morning, I decided to open his camera roll to AirDrop a few pictures we had taken the day before. I saw his hidden folder, so I curiously opened it.

Instead, what popped up was a screen recording of him hiding his story from more than 50 women on the day he posted me, along with intimate videos of him and other women. These were all from before we started dating, but what still made me angry was that they were still on his phone.

I also felt betrayed because he knew what being public meant to me. I let him into my personal life, and this is what he does. I asked him why he did this, and he told me that when we got back together, he wasn’t sure we would work out, so he basically wanted to keep his options open with those women.

So that same day, I told him to get out and take his things with him. At that point, I also felt like I needed to get back at him somehow.

I wasn’t the type to cheat. It was not at all in my character to cheat on someone who loves me and whom i love. But this guy lied to me in a way that was honestly hilariously predictable of him.

So I texted an old buddy of mine and had him over two hours after my boyfriend left. I hungout with him in the same bed I had slept in with my boyfriend in the night before, made him take a shower using my boyfriend’s towel, watched a movie my boyfriend and I were planning to watch, and also made him fall asleep next to me on my boyfriend’s pillow.

Honestly, I didn’t feel too guilty about it. Na enjoy ko pa nga yung company. Sooo yeah

BEFORE anyone comes at me in the comments, I need to lay it all out for you. My boyfriend and I almost lost our relationship because I had suspicions that he was intentionally hiding our relationship from people on his social media.

He has a much larger follower count compared to mine, and about 90% of the people he follows are women.

I asked him about it calmly back then, and he told me it was because he wasn’t ready to go public with me, so I respected that.

About five months went by, and I was getting ready to move into a new place to live alone, closer to my university. He started opening up to the idea of spending most of his days there with me (basically almost living together).

But I told him I couldn’t let that happen unless he was ready to go public with me. Two people sharing a space and calling it home is so intimate, and the idea that I was still hidden publicly didn’t sit right with me. So I told him this, and he said he couldn’t make that change for me, so I chose to break up with him.

A day later, I called to get a proper goodbye from both of us, and then he told me he didn’t want to break up anymore and was ready to make our relationship public, since, according to him, it meant more to him than his followers.

Days passed, and it was almost a month since we got back together. Then one morning, I decided to open his camera roll to AirDrop a few pictures we had taken the day before. I saw his hidden folder, so I curiously opened it.

Instead, what popped up was a screen recording of him hiding his story from more than 50 women on the day he posted me, along with intimate videos of him and other women. These were all from before we started dating, but what still made me angry was that they were still on his phone.

I also felt betrayed because he knew what being public meant to me. I let him into my personal life, and this is what he does. I asked him why he did this, and he told me that when we got back together, he wasn’t sure we would work out, so he basically wanted to keep his options open with those women.

So that same day, I told him to get out and take his things with him. At that point, I also felt like I needed to get back at him somehow.

I wasn’t the type to cheat. It was not at all in my character to cheat on someone who loves me and whom i love. But this guy scr*wed me over in a way that was honestly hilariously predictable of him.

So I texted an old f*ck buddy of mine and had him over two hours after my boyfriend left. I f*cked him in the same bed I had been with my boyfriend in the night before, made him take a shower using my boyfriend’s towel, watched a movie my boyfriend and I were planning to watch, and also made him fall asleep next to me on my boyfriend’s pillow.

So, AITA?

BEFORE anyone comes at me in the comments, I need to lay it all out for you. My boyfriend and I almost lost our relationship because I had suspicions that he was intentionally hiding our relationship from people on his social media.

He has a much larger follower count compared to mine, and about 90% of the people he follows are women.

I asked him about it calmly back then, and he told me it was because he wasn’t ready to go public with me, so I respected that.

About five months went by, and I was getting ready to move into a new place to live alone, closer to my university. He started opening up to the idea of spending most of his days there with me (basically almost living together).

But I told him I couldn’t let that happen unless he was ready to go public with me. Two people sharing a space and calling it home is so intimate, and the idea that I was still hidden publicly didn’t sit right with me. So I told him this, and he said he couldn’t make that change for me, so I chose to break up with him.

A day later, I called to get a proper goodbye from both of us, and then he told me he didn’t want to break up anymore and was ready to make our relationship public, since, according to him, it meant more to him than his followers.

Days passed, and it was almost a month since we got back together. Then one morning, I decided to open his camera roll to AirDrop a few pictures we had taken the day before. I saw his hidden folder, so I curiously opened it.

Instead, what popped up was a screen recording of him hiding his story from more than 50 women on the day he posted me, along with intimate videos of him and other women. These were all from before we started dating, but what still made me angry was that they were still on his phone.

I also felt betrayed because he knew what being public meant to me. I let him into my personal life, and this is what he does. I asked him why he did this, and he told me that when we got back together, he wasn’t sure we would work out, so he basically wanted to keep his options open with those women.

So that same day, I told him to get out and take his things with him. At that point, I also felt like I needed to get back at him somehow.

I wasn’t the type to cheat. It was not at all in my character to cheat on someone who loves me and whom i love. But this guy scr*wed me over in a way that was honestly hilariously predictable of him.

So I texted an old f*ck buddy of mine and had him over two hours after my boyfriend left. I f*cked him in the same bed I had been with my boyfriend in the night before, made him take a shower using my boyfriend’s towel, watched a movie my boyfriend and I were planning to watch, and also made him fall asleep next to me on my boyfriend’s pillow.

So, AITA?