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Hi all, F(26) & M(25) here. We’ve been together for 9 years and recently started wondering how our sex life compares to other long-term couples. We usually average a 1-2 times a week, but it can vary quite a bit depending on stress, work, mood, and energy levels. Some weeks it’s more frequent, other times less.

It made us curious what’s actually “normal” beyond our own bubble, since you hear such different things from people and online.

For those in long-term relationships: how often do you have sex? Has it changed over the years? And do you think frequency really matters, or is it more about overall connection and intimacy?

\*\*TL;DR;\*\* : sex frequency questions

Hi all, F(26) & M(25) here. We’ve been together for 9 years and recently started wondering how our sex life compares to other long-term couples. We usually average a 1-2 times a week, but it can vary quite a bit depending on stress, work, mood, and energy levels. Some weeks it’s more frequent, other times less.

It made us curious what’s actually “normal” beyond our own bubble, since you hear such different things from people and online.

For those in long-term relationships: how often do you have sex? Has it changed over the years? And do you think frequency really matters, or is it more about overall connection and intimacy?

**TL;DR;** : sex frequency questions