dating vs. marriage routine – how to get out of this?
Married live is more mundane and not as exciting as when you’re just starting to date some. No shit Sherlock, I know. What I’m wondering is this: is it possible to bring back some of the magic of the first couple of months? You’re not trying to ‘win’ that person anymore, and lot of energy turns into responsibilities and work. Which makes sense but lately I caught myself thinking about how structured things felt back when I was on apps like Hily. Not saying that was better but it was intentional in a way everyday life doesn’t feel anymore... So yeah, I get that routine is normal, but how to get out of this autopilot mode?
u/Former_Brilliant4444 — 3 days ago