u/Formal_Catch_8970

Hi 😊 I’m a 40-year-old, Trans Woman, living in Illinois. I’m looking for a long-term romantic connection with someone who enjoys steady communication and building something real over time.

My poly situation:

Married to my nesting partner (13 years) & 1 Serious Girlfriend (<1 year)

ENM Polyamorous Kitchen Table

Dating independently (no couples please)  

Personality:

Liberal, introverted, anxiety/depression (managed, but real), emotional, sometimes clingy.

Neurodivergent (“neurospicy”) and intensely curious — I pick up new hobbies constantly and infodump when excited.

Living Situation:

Homeowner, 2 kids, 2 large dogs

Current Interests:

Spicy romance novels (ACOTAR, Heated Rivalry (Or any other MM/Hockey Romance), Bonds of Hercules, Zodiac Academy, Lights Out, Lola Glass (Monster Smut), sapphic romances, many more…

Crafty, love crocheting (recent special interest), being outside on nice days, gardening.

I’m a little bit nerdy for various different subjects.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who wants something consistent, enjoys conversation, and is open to letting attraction grow into something meaningful. I really just someone to talk to daily, via text/video chats/phone calls, long distance type girlfriend.

I can’t wait to meet you, send me a DM if you’re interested!   

Hi! I’m a 40F (MtF), in Illinois, and I’m looking for a genuine online friend for daily-ish conversation, memes, voice notes.

I’m neurodivergent (neurospicy) and I collect hobbies like a dragon collects shiny objects. If you like someone who’s curious, chatty, and a little chaotic in an endearing way…

Quick me-stuff:

Introvert with anxiety/depression, but I’m great at internet friendship

Liberal(no conservatives please)

Wife, Two kids, two dogs

Bookworm stuff:

Romance/Fantasy (with spice): Pucking Around, Bonds of Hercules, ACoTaR, Lights Out, God of Fury, Zodiac Academy, Lola Glass books, much more!

What I’m looking for:

Someone kind and consistent who enjoys chatting and doesn’t mind a good rant.

Hi! I’m a 40F (transgender), in Illinois, and I’m looking for a genuine online friend for daily-ish conversation, memes, voice notes.

I’m neurodivergent (neurospicy) and I collect hobbies like a dragon collects shiny objects. If you like someone who’s curious, chatty, and a little chaotic in an endearing way…

Quick me-stuff:

Introvert with anxiety/depression, but I’m great at internet friendship

Liberal(no conservatives please)

Wife, Two kids, two dogs

Bookworm stuff:

Romance/Fantasy (with spice): Pucking Around, Bonds of Hercules, ACoTaR, Lights Out, God of Fury, Zodiac Academy, Lola Glass books, much more!

What I’m looking for:

Someone kind and consistent who enjoys chatting and doesn’t mind a good rant.

Hi 😊 I’m a 40-year-old, Trans Woman, living in Illinois. I’m looking for a long-term romantic connection with someone who enjoys steady communication and building something real over time.

\\\*\\\*My poly situation (quick + honest):\\\*\\\* 

Married to my nesting partner (13 years)

ENM Polyamorous Kitchen Table

Dating independently (no couples please)  

\\\*\\\*Personality:\\\*\\\*

Love to talk, can be very shy at first. I value openness and honesty, especially of other neurodivergent people.

(I feel like I connect better with people on the spectrum)

Liberal, introverted, anxiety/depression (managed, but real),

Neurodivergent (“neurospicy”) and intensely curious — I pick up new hobbies constantly and infodump when excited.

\\\*\\\*Living Situation:\\\*\\\*

Homeowner, 2 kids, 2 large dogs

\\\*\\\*Current Interests:\\\*\\\*

Spicy romance novels (\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*ACOTAR, Heated Rivalry (Or any other MM/Hockey Romance), Bonds of Hercules, Zodiac Academy, Lights Out, Lola Glass (Monster Smut), sapphic romances, many more…

Crafty/Fix-It type person. I love crocheting(blankets and I’d like to make cardigans at some point), fixing and building things.

I’m a little bit nerdy for various different subjects. (DM me for more info)

\\\*\\\*What I’m looking for:\\\*\\\*

Someone who wants something consistent, enjoys conversation, and is open to letting attraction grow into something meaningful. I really want someone to talk to daily, via text/video chats/phone calls. Open to meeting after we’ve gotten to know one another.❤️

I can’t wait to meet you, send me a DM if you’re interested!