u/FollowingConstant595

So.. Why this is a hard question is..

Ive dated him before, for around 2months before he broke up with me, I understood that he was pressured by his friends. (Which is a red flag) at the start of that relationship, he was very consistent, texting me every day and texting me first.

After we broke up, things started to change...he told me he wanted to get back together in a couple years, so hes a bit older. We hung out a lot and I was falling for him again,and so was he. He had gotten a lot more inconsistent,some days telling me he wants me, some days he simply doesnt respond. And then..He kissed me.. That turned into many more..

And then I had to go on vacation for a week.. After that day we kissed, he hadn't sent a message to me for 8 days now.. And I'm getting kind of annoyed by how many times it already has happened, should I ask him to change? And if he doesn't.. Should I leave him? I honestly don't think it's good for my overthinking mentality.