Suspecting my partner is messaging other women again – how do I handle this?
I (25F) have been with my partner (26M) for 6 years . He has a history of corn addiction, I’ve seen he’s been having inappropriate conversations. I’ve only seen a few deleted texts. He’s told me he’s trying to stopbut I don’t think he actually has.
Recently, I’ve started getting the feeling it’s happening again. In the past I’ve seen messages and photos, but lately he’s been deleting conversations, which makes me more suspicious.
I feel stuck because I want clarity, but I also don’t want to cross boundaries or come across as controlling. At the same time, it’s really affecting my trust in the relationship.
How should I approach this situation? Is it reasonable to ask about his messages, or is there a better way to handle this?
I’ve been thinking about someone in Australia texting him idk..Pretending to be a girl? Like from work or something. I have it already typed out.
TL;DR:
I think my partner might be secretly messaging other women again and deleting evidence. Not sure how to approach it without making things worse.