u/Fluffy_Fun_9814

Weird body tingles for period?

Does anyone get weird body sensations before or the day of their period?

I may have also had too much sugar but was active today and just have a high and tingles in my body and some pains here and there.

I am going to the doctor to order a full panel blood test tomorrow too.

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u/Fluffy_Fun_9814 — 1 day ago

Disney Adult

My mom made plans to go to Disney at the beginning of the week. I wish I didnt have to go. I know most people think I'm ungrateful but my mom insults me a lot.

I showed her something that Im proud of and she called it stupid. She watches stupid stuff from other people all the time but ofc her daughter's content sucks.

Idk, I regret going for her, especially after what she said.

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u/Fluffy_Fun_9814 — 6 days ago

Aging parents...

Hi all,

I was looking for advice from others who have aging parents that are stubborn and don't listen to the point of verbal abuse.

I hate yelling (lvl1 audhd woman), and my mother and her sister both have history of yelling and exploding. Their mother did that to them. I think there is history of bipolar disorder but of course, my mom doesn't believe in therapy. I had a relationship with an abusive man and he was like that too, I suggested therapy and he said it didn't work. (I know I was likely in this relationship due to familiarity from my mother).

I had cut off my mom before which led to my dad's side to question it and try to get us to talk which I found annoying but people have passed away since then. My dad, his dad, so I don't have many people left and my mom is aging... I had made friends in the past but they have all gotten married or we grew apart.

I know I need to make friends again. I just feel I'm in a tough situation because a lot of people know that parents treat their children differently but how she talks down to me as an adult is not okay, she has never apologized for it and will never apologize for it. Her belief is that is how parenting is but she doesn't realize and will probably never realize that I'm a grown woman.

I feel bad to cut her off as she is old now. I don't have any siblings or a partner to support me or tell her she is being abusive to me. Her friend is the only one that defended me once and of course she got quiet but he is a very kind man and doesn't like conflict himself.

Has anyone cut off a parent even when their aging? I feel its risky but anytime she yells or talks down to me, it really affects me, especially after experiencing abuse in a relationship.

I've tried to tell her that but she denies she does that. So I basically just don't talk to her much. I know her family and my distant cousins will see me as the bad guy for not helping my mother but they don't see how she talks to me or disrespects me. I fear something bad will happen to her and people will call me since I'm her only child.

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u/Fluffy_Fun_9814 — 8 days ago

Hi all,

I was looking for advice from others who have aging parents that are stubborn and don't listen to the point of verbal abuse.

I hate yelling, and my mother and her sister both have history of yelling and exploding. Their mother did that to them. I think there is history of bipolar disorder but of course, my mom doesn't believe in therapy. I had a relationship with an abusive man and he was like that too, I suggested therapy and he said it didn't work. (I know I was likely in this relationship due to familiarity from my mother).

I had cut off my mom before which led to my dad's side to question it and try to get us to talk which I found annoying but people have passed away since then. My dad, his dad, so I don't have many people left and my mom is aging... I had made friends in the past but they have all gotten married or we grew apart.

I know I need to make friends again. I just feel I'm in a tough situation because a lot of people know that parents treat their children differently but how she talks down to me as an adult is not okay, she has never apologized for it and will never apologize for it. Her belief is that is how parenting is but she doesn't realize and will probably never realize that I'm a grown woman.

I feel bad to cut her off as she is old now. I don't have any siblings or a partner to support me or tell her she is being abusive to me. Her friend is the only one that defended me once and of course she got quiet but he is a very kind man and doesn't like conflict himself.

Has anyone cut off a parent even when their aging? I feel its risky but anytime she yells or talks down to me, it really affects me, especially after experiencing abuse in a relationship.

I've tried to tell her that but she denies she does that. So I basically just don't talk to her much. I know her family and my distant cousins will see me as the bad guy for not helping my mother but they don't see how she talks to me or disrespects me. I fear something bad will happen to her and people will call me since I'm her only child.

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u/Fluffy_Fun_9814 — 8 days ago

I found a job that is looking for the morningnshift covered, its 3am - 11am pst but they prefer someone who lives in CA?

I found that odd, that shift is doable in other timezones.

I do wake up at 3am sometimes and could probably stay up to 11am.

How would you schedule your day if you were to accept a shift like this? The closest I've worked to this was when I was in college and worked at Starbucks. I loved thr 4am - 12pm shift, it was easier for me to wake up at 3am than 6am or 7am... but I'm also not 20 anymore 😅

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u/Fluffy_Fun_9814 — 10 days ago

Where do you go when you have no where to go?

I'm unemployed but not struggling. I have savings and some passive income but its not enough to afford rent.

I don't mind being a nomad either but its moreso of feeling comfortable where I go.

Any tips?

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u/Fluffy_Fun_9814 — 14 days ago

Hi all,

I'm staying with a relative but unfortunately they get really weird.

This relative has made me feel uncomfortable with their rudeness and how mean they can be before.

I typically had lived on my own for a long time but rent is just too high in my home state and along the west coast of the US now.

I'm not young anymore either, so finding young roommates isn't really an option, I didnt like that when I was younger either.

I have decent savings and okay passive income but I don't really want to spend more than $600/mo.

I've been trying to find a global remote job that will allow me to work anywhere too but most are contracting or just want me in the US only.

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u/Fluffy_Fun_9814 — 14 days ago
▲ 5 r/cf4cf

Hey!

F4M - open to LDR and relocation. I'm 5'7" and curvy. I have naturally curly, black hair and bronze (dark tan/brown) skin tone.

I like to travel, read, hike, explore, pc game - I play dbd the most - contact me if you just want to chill and game too.

I've been skydiving, ziplining but also like calmer activities like canoeing or snorkeling.

I'm demisexual, so I value an emotional and deeper connection.

My ideal age range is 33+ but am open to friendship and connection with anyone. Hopefully with others who like to travel as well.

Hope you all are safe and having a great day ✌️☮️💐☀️

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u/Fluffy_Fun_9814 — 16 days ago