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[F22] UK, F4M

Hey everyone!!! I’m T, i'm 22 from the UK westmidlands😊

I like building LEGO (currently obsessed with the plant sets they keep releasing). I’m also weirdly fixated by how they reuse pieces from old setts like butterflies for flowers and hats for the flower buds????!!!

I’m somewhere between introvert and extrovert depending on the vibe 😂 I’m not big on video games personally, but I love puzzles and anything outdoorsy. Recently, I've gotten into Pilates and hiking, which I’m really enjoying honestly!!

Spring and early summer are my favourite times of year!!!! It gives me a reason to wear a good outfit without a coat!!!!! I’ve also built up a slightly ridiculous cardigan collection....it's England what can i say 😂😂😂.

I’m 5ft6 (still convinced I’ve got a few inches left in me to grow… delusion is key one day I will be a 6ft7 goddess💅).

I'm mixed, afro hair, green/hazel eyes, some frecklles, and 11 tattoos so far with more to come!!!!! I have attached some photos too x

What I’m looking for:

My other half!!! The bubble to my gum!! The giggle to my wiggle!!! Peanut butter to my JAM!!😂😂😂

Someone who is(UK based at least) around 22–30 years old, good sense of humour is a must, i find myself hilarious even if you don't.

Also, hobbies, I'd love to learn more about the person than just what they look like. Well, obviously, I'd be curious too, so if you message, please drop a photo 💕

I don’t have a strict checklist, but emotional maturity is really important to me

I want someone I can rely on, communicate well with, and just feel comfortable around.....also… you HAVE to be open to trying new food because I’m a massive foodie and I’m not doing that alone 😂(please)

u/TiahanaCat — 1 day ago
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25 [F4M] DMV area - lover girl in a hookup/ons world </3

i had to include memes like it’s just who i am 🙂‍↕️ but hey guys, my people 🫂 #teamnokids

about me: 5’4”, black, plus size, a libra, tats n piercings, left leaning, romantic, sensitive, shy at first but a chatterbox later, bratty but submissive for the right person, ambivert, loveeeee music n going out! loves banter too! agnostic. i’m high maintenance lowkey. hello kitty girl. spoiled in a way. wants to be babied n given princess treatment 25/8 (i’m dramatic). doesn’t smoke (will do an edible), loves a lil drink. i’m pretty funny if i do say so myself 😚 at the end of the day, i’m just a girl.

you: 24-30 years old. know how to have fun conversation (i get bored easily sorry my adhd). my preference does lean towards white men 🫣 a gamer (stream games for me pls), funnier than me (which is hard), extroverted, can handle fam/friend game nights, a yearner, spontaneous. takes initiative, PLANS THINGS!!! intentional & romantic as well. bonus points if you’re a leo, aries, or sagittarius & you’re into football (go bills). more romantic than me/a simp tbh

i’ve never been in a relationship & i yearn for that intimacy, connecting with someone on that level. a tom holland n zendaya type beat. i got so much love to give, just looking for my man, fall into my lap or somethin! i just wanna watch the sunrise with someone, like i’m not asking for much. anyways i’m also open to being friends with my girlypops, would love to go out!! i’m trying to build my community currently so :)

DON’T message if you’re: ignorant, republican/not political, xenophobic, homophobic, racist, transphobic, etc. if you’re into dark humor or you’re just a dry talker/sarcastic. also bad/incorrect grammar (yes i’m the grammar police lowkey, it’s a pet peeve). no enm/poly/couples/you’re in a relationship already, that’s not my tea (i get possessive lol). i am picky & i don’t like low effort. i’ll reflect the energy you give me.

u/softsleepybaby — 5 days ago
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30 [F4M] #Europe

My name is Anna, I live in the Netherlands, I often travel around Europe, and not only in Europe. In fact, I would like to find something serious here. I haven’t been in a relationship for a year and a half. A little information about me: I like to cook, I have an active lifestyle, I love to travel, I like to read and draw. I have my own business - an art therapy studio in the Netherlands. I don’t have any pets, but I don’t mind a person who has a pet. I appreciate ambition in my partner, the desire for self-development, the discovery of something new. Of course, I appreciate mutual understanding and support in the relationship.

u/annastreltsovaa — 2 days ago
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28 [M4F] #Boston - A fun and deep soul who loves being outdoors, adventures and also cozy nights

Boston-based photographer/videographer looking for a genuine long-term relationship with the right person. I’m intentionally child-free and hoping to meet someone who truly wants the same kind of future: freedom, adventure, peace, growth, meaningful connection, and a life built around experiences instead of the traditional “must-have-kids” path.

A little about me:

I’m ambitious, creative, and deeply passionate about what I do. Photography and filmmaking became more than work for me, it’s how I experience the world. I love storytelling, beautiful moments, spontaneous adventures, and making life feel cinematic.

I’m very outdoorsy and happiest somewhere surrounded by nature. Hiking, camping, kayaking, canoeing, road trips, hidden gems, mountain views, national parks, random scenic pull-offs, chasing sunsets… sign me up instantly.

I’m also really into fitness. I go to the gym regularly, trying to get back into running, and recently started getting into tennis and pickleball too. During winter, snowboarding basically becomes a personality trait.

I’m a huge anime fan too. Everything from deep emotional storytelling to absolute chaotic nonsense. Bonus points if you’ll binge anime with me while judging the characters like they’re real people.

Big coffee person. Collector of hobbies. Deep thinker. Naturally curious about life.

Personality-wise, I really value honesty, emotional maturity, and straightforward communication. I appreciate people who are genuine, self-aware, and able to openly communicate instead of playing games. I also love humor, sarcasm, and making people laugh because life already gets serious enough sometimes.

I’d love to meet someone adventurous, affectionate, emotionally mature, and excited to actually share life together. Someone who’d rather go on spontaneous weekend trips, explore hidden trails, snowboard, grab coffee at random cafés, watch anime, or stay up talking about life at 2am than just live on autopilot.

At the end of the day, I think life is meant to be fully experienced… and some journeys are simply better shared with the right person.

u/Disastrous_Stick_976 — 2 days ago
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30 [F4M] #Europe - Looking for a genuine connection, not a one time thing

I could honestly tell a lot about myself, but I’ve always preferred getting to know someone step by step, discovering new things about each other naturally instead of putting everything on the table right away

I run my own business in the photography industry, so I’m definitely a creative person. I rent out photo studios and give other people space to create, while also doing high-quality editing work for my own clients. It’s something I genuinely enjoy and put a lot of passion into

I’m a very active person overall, and honestly, sitting around doing nothing is just not for me 😅 I’d love to meet someone with a similar energy and outlook on life. I absolutely love animals, I have the sweetest boy named Shelby (my dog), and I also do horse riding and take care of my horse Bruno. Some of my biggest hobbies are reading, movies, yoga, gym, photography (obviously haha), traveling, and just experiencing new things in general. I’ve already traveled to quite a few places, but my list is still very long. I rly want to live life to the fullest and without regrets

Preferably looking for someone living somewhere in Europe (so please mention where u r from when u message me), because if we truly connect, I’d definitely be open to meeting in person one day 🙂 Maybe we’re actually not that far from each other? :) Tell mee

u/verapushkareva — 20 hours ago
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Hi!

I’m 6ft tall with caramel/olive skin depending on the season. I have a shaved head but with a beard to compliment otherwise I’d be an actual egg. I have blue eyes which everyone says is my standout feature. Other than that I have a bad case of RBF. I have maybe 14 tattoos all around my body, I may look scary but I promise I’m a big softy. 😇

Build wise I’m muscular yet a lil squishy. (This varies depending on what I’m doing - last year I dropped 20kgs but now I’m bulking again)

I’m a fairly relaxed person even nonchalant if you must. I love the simple things in life, beaches, cafes, exploring the urban jungle and going on road trips. I’m also a massive foodie - it’s probably the main reason I travel is to try new foods, it’s pretty much the key to my heart. As much as this makes me sound like an extrovert I do have a small social battery, you can find me at home binging shows and playing games (pc/switch for those who game!)

My main hobby is working out, you can find me in the gym most days I prefer weights over cardio but both work hand in hand! I’m always happy to give advice or walk you through no matter what level you’re at!

As my title says I’m based in Australia but due to my line of work I have flexibility to get a job anywhere in the world! So convince to come visit you 🤪 my job is niche to some but I love what I do!

I don’t have a preference on who I talk too, age and ethnicity don’t bother me! All are welcome.

More than happy to send face pics in DMs!

u/Dull-Heart-1085 — 21 hours ago
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Hey :)

I’m Lillia, 19, and childfree from Algeria.

I’ll be honest I have tried posting on similar subreddits before, and while I met a lot of… questionable people, to put it nicely, I also had enough unsettling experiences to almost give up on this entirely. But before I write it off for good, I thought maybe I should give fate one more chance to surprise me :))

What I’m looking for is something authentic, someone I can build a true genuine connection with online that can grow naturally and, if things go well, eventually turn into meeting in real life. I tend to be more drawn to older and emotionally mature people.

A lot of what I’ve found in the dating pool lately has been disappointing; immaturity, inconsistency, or people who immediately make things weird.. So I value sincerity and emotional intelligence quite a bit.

Here is what u should know about me:

I’m currently finishing my Bachelor’s in English this year, which is both exciting and mildly terrifying. I love baking pastries and sweets, probably a little too much. I’m a huge sucker for sharing pics, whether it’s random moments, food, outfits, or the sky or sunset looking pretty and colorful for no reason. I’m into doing nails, crocheting, and anything that helps me work my creative spirit. Also a certified sweet tooth bonus point if you could guess my favorite dessert lol.

When it comes to appearance, I honestly don’t care much for unrealistic standards. Distinctive beauty and personality will always stand out more to me than perfection ever could.

What matters most to me is kindness, emotional availability, maturity, and someone who knows how to communicate. I love playful flirting and fun convos, but I also deeply appreciate someone who can be present as a character, emotionally genuine, and willing to put mutual effort into building something real and meaningful.

If any of this sounds like your kind of connection, feel free to message me and introduce yourself properly.

Low effort messages will probably be ignored.

u/lilyOrg19 — 8 days ago
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Reposting bc I wanted to add more pics😅

Hi! 28, flight attendant ✈️

Originally from the DC area, I’m childfree by choice and really value my independence, travel, and building a life that feels both exciting and peaceful.

For compatibility: I’m agnostic and would prefer to date someone who is also agnostic, atheist, or non-religious. Politics are also important to me. I’m liberal and looking for someone who shares similar values.

I’m a Black woman, and I’m most aligned with someone who is already comfortable dating Black women and shares that level of openness without hesitation.

I’m into working out, trying new food spots, baking, and anything a little spooky 👻

I’m looking to connect with someone like-minded—childfree, emotionally mature, and actually available for a real connection. I appreciate good conversation and someone who genuinely enjoys life without the expectation of kids.

Also brushing back up on my Spanish 😆 I love Madrid and Mexico City. Would love to meet someone who enjoys travel as much as I do.

u/ZealousidealGas1218 — 12 days ago
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30 [F4M] #Europe - Looking for something serious

Hey !! I’m mostly looking for something serious or at least meaningful with real connection. If you’d like to get to know each other better - feel free to DM me. I’m really interested in law. I’m a pretty active girl btw I love yoga, pilates, tennis and padel :) but I also have a creative side too, I love drawing and making things from clay, I’m also into long walks, nature, hiking and cooking something tasty. The most important thing for me though is quality time with close people, friends and family.

u/miroslavasavchuk — 20 hours ago
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[M4F] 28 | France/Europe – Tech Geek, Fitness Enthusiast & Future Childfree Partner

Hi there! I’m a 28-year-old man of Turkish descent, standing at 1m74 and weighing 80kg. I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship with a woman who, like me, has decided that children aren't part of her life plan.

About Me:

• Mechanical Soul: I’m obsessed with anything that has an engine. I’m a huge fan of motorsport and I rarely miss a Formula 1 Grand Prix. My passion extends to the skies too—I love aviation, from sleek commercial jets to powerful fighter planes.

• Staying Active: I’ve recently committed to bodybuilding and I try to squeeze in a run whenever I can. I like staying moving!

• Sci-Fi Nerd: Big fan of science fiction. Currently, I’m counting down the days until the Stargate reboot on Amazon Prime.

• PC Gamer: When I'm not looking at engines, I'm at my desk. I'm a dedicated PC gamer, specifically focusing on single-player experiences. I love getting lost in a good story and a well-crafted world.

• Lifestyle: I’m a non-smoker and I don’t drink. Regarding food, I’m leaning towards a "near-vegetarian" lifestyle—I don't eat fish and the only meat I still consume is chicken.

What I’m Looking For:

A serious connection with someone based in France or Europe. I value health, shared passions, and the freedom that comes with a childfree lifestyle.

u/barca5928 — 3 days ago
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37 [F4M] New England/ONLINE - looking for my soulmate

*If the post is still up, I'm still looking. I'm dating with intention. Any sexual remarks will be blocked. Please read the rest of post so we don't waste our time if we're not a good match ◡̈ I'll do my best to respond every single one and I'm not on Reddit much but will check periodically so please don't get upset and downvote me. (be sure to mention you found me on the cf4cf subreddit) please have a good sense of humor I love good ol banter! I typically gravitate more to someone who's really funny. Shoot your shot like Kobe!

We're the same type of weird if you laugh at your own jokes.

Hi! I’m in Connecticut with my sweet senior dog (she’s basically my child — only child energy, lol). I’m happiest outside hiking, paddleboarding, swimming, exploring museums, or finding new cafes. I love collecting postcards, tackling DIY projects, reading, watching sports, fishing at beautiful Martha's Vineyard and laughing at reality TV. My dream is to live near the water someday so I can swim whenever I want. I'm running a half-marathon in in 2 weeks, and it might be my last.

I’m looking for a best friend, a soulmate, and a supportive partner, someone I can build a life with. I want a relationship where we stand by each other through the highs and lows, weathering every storm as a team. Great conversation and playful banter are a must. I love being able to laugh and talk about everything and nothing. I also want someone who is as adventurous as I am.

I'm naturally hyperindependent, value quality time deeply, and can be pretty direct and honest (in a good way). I'm also intentionally working on expressing my care more openly; growth matters to me. I'm deaf; but that just means you get a built-in hype girl. Sing off-key? I'm clapping like you just sold out Madison Square Garden.

I’m hoping to meet someone kind, steady, emotionally mature, and intentional about building a meaningful, monogamous relationship. If this sounds like your vibe, send me a message and tell me about yourself, and please include a photo. I might get downvoted, but I can't have children. I typically go for asians but I'll keep an open mind to anyone 😄

I also want to emphasize this: if you were recently broken up, please don't message me until you're completely healed. I am not anybody's placeholder.

Please be emotionally mature, located in the U.S. or Canada ✨ I may be open to the UK/other countries if the connection is right.

Thank you for reading I hope everyone finds love in this subreddit xx

u/ineedcoffeeasap — 6 days ago
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48 [M4F] #Midwest — Somewhere out there, maybe you miss this too

I’ve reached the age where loneliness no longer feels dramatic. It feels quiet. Familiar. Like a lamp left on in another room.

I work in the literary world and spend most of my days surrounded by stories, which may explain why I still believe connection is possible even in a culture that seems designed to avoid it. I’m a writer, a musician, a man with a cat curled somewhere nearby most nights, trying to build a life that still has softness in it.

I miss intimacy in the old-fashioned sense. Not sex. Not games. Not “situationships.” I miss being known. I miss private language between two people. I miss hearing a phone buzz and hoping it’s one particular person.

The nights are the hardest. There are moments where I reach across the bed half-asleep, instinctively wanting to put my arm around someone, and there’s nobody there. That empty space can ache in a way that’s difficult to admit out loud. It’s strange how physical loneliness becomes after enough time passes.

I suppose I’m old school in the way I love. Domestic. Romantic. Loyal. The kind of person who notices little things. I like long conversations that drift into vulnerable territory at 1 a.m. I like wit, intelligence, mutual curiosity, and the kind of banter that slowly becomes affection without either person realizing exactly when it happened.

As for attraction: I’ve always been drawn to women who feel warm and real to me — short, thick women with big hearts and deep minds. Kindness matters. Emotional intelligence matters. The ability to laugh at absurdity matters.

I’m not looking for anything shady or purely physical. I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who also feels the absence of it. Someone who misses tenderness. Someone who wants to matter to another person again.

Maybe it starts with a few messages.
Maybe it becomes the reason we look at our phones and smile.
Maybe one morning there’s finally a good morning text waiting for both of us.

That would be enough to begin.

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u/ThrowawaySisyphus281 — 16 hours ago
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Looking for the Right Person! [M4F] -- New England

Are you looking for a fun and interesting introvert? Do you want someone who enjoys fitness? Above all... a childfree man? I might just be the guy for you!

I’m 23!

Some of my passions include meteorology, yoga, learning, philosophy, and hiking. I recently finished grad school and look forward to the opportunities my field provides. Feel free to ask me weather questions! I've done yoga for over 3 years now and taught it at my college as well.

I'd say I'm pretty introverted and independent, but will make time for the right person ;)

I'd also say I'm patient, disciplined, and honest. I may not be the loudest in the room, but I'd love to share my passions and thoughts with someone who wishes to listen. More of a slow burn type of person, so I always appreciate understanding and patience as well.

A couple of other things about me: I'm 6'6" (yes, I promise I'm not lying) , just wanted to mention in case it's important. I'm straight.

I'm looking for someone who:

  • Is between ages 21–30 ideally. Emotional maturity matters to me regardless of age.
  • Wants a long-term relationship, and no kids of course.
  • Is ideally located in the New England/Northeast region.
  • Is active in some way — running, the gym, yoga, swimming, hiking, etc. I'm not picky!
  • Can push me to try new things. I sometimes get caught up in my routine and wouldn't mind someone spicing it up a little.

If any of this resonates, feel free to reach out! :)

u/Born_Perspective4371 — 4 days ago
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My name is Allison and I’m from Wisconsin, USA.

I’m 26 years old and I’m a huge homebody, but I think part of that is from working from home so much😅

My ideal nights are usually cozy pajamas, conspiracy or true crime shows, and cuddling with my cats (cat tax in photos). I like quiet time and little routines like nightly walks or bike rides. I’d love to be able to meet someone intentional who enjoys just existing and going through life together.

I work a lot and I don’t have very many hobbies, but that doesn’t mean I’m not a fun person! I’m big on loyalty, consistency, affection, and making the ones I care about feel loved and appreciated. I really want a long term relationship where we’re obsessed with each other in a healthy way and love each other loudly.

Please don’t be afraid to comment or send me a message.

u/Comfortable_Fly_1964 — 6 days ago
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31 [M4F] Sweden/Anywhere – Skinny chef seeking chaos, chemistry & someone to ruin my sleep schedule

I’m a 31-year-old guy from Sweden who somehow became both a chef and underweight.

So either I’m terrible at my job or I possess levels of self-control science should study.

I work in IT too, because apparently I enjoy stress in multiple formats.

Things about me:

- I cook like your future husband but sleep like a divorced truck driver

- I crochet sometimes, which is a very effective way to confuse people on dating apps

- I read books voluntarily

- I travel whenever life becomes too peaceful

- I ski, swim, game, and occasionally disappear into YouTube documentaries at 3 AM

- I prefer actual conversations over texting someone for 3 weeks just to discover they reply “haha” in real life too

What I’m looking for:

Someone funny, emotionally intelligent, affectionate, and at least a little kinky.

Not looking for a completely vanilla relationship — I like open-minded people who can communicate honestly, laugh about weird things, and enjoy good chemistry both inside and outside the bedroom.

You don’t need to be “experienced.”

Everyone online acts like they were born with a PhD in BDSM anyway.

Bonus points if:

- you have a passport and questionable decision-making skills

- you can explain your niche interests with terrifying enthusiasm

- you bully me lovingly

- you’re the type of person who says “this is probably a bad idea” right before making the story better

I’m willing to relocate for the right person.

Or the wrong person. Depends how good the lore is.

If you message me:

Tell me your age, where you’re from, and one thing about yourself that would immediately make a therapist lean forward slightly.

u/lifeain — 1 day ago
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Hey there. I am a 29 year old woman living in the Greater Boston area looking to meet someone with the intention of establishing a committed monogamous relationship. I absolutely hate the apps, but my introverted nature and odd work hours makes meeting people in the wild extremely difficult so I figured I'd put myself out there on this forum.

Here's some stuff about me:

- I have been childfree for as long as I can remember, for various reasons. I have never particularly liked children, pregnancy is body horror, and I highly value my personal and financial freedom.

- I am an atheist and anti-theist. Having grown up in a strict religious household, I know very well that religion is not for me and actively conflicts with my personal values.

- I am am extremely curious person, and I love learning new things. I am particularly interested in astronomy and biology/ecology but pretty much any topic can pique my interest.

- I am vegan, and have a deep love for animals and all living things.

- I live a sober lifestyle from all mind-altering substances, and don't smoke or vape.

- I have a blunt sense of humor and appreciate people who help me to not take life too seriously.

- I am not very political but my values could be described as a democratic socialist, a la Bernie Sanders.

- I enjoy playing video games and built my own PC for that purpose. Some of my favorites include the classic world of warcraft trilogy, morrowind, and heavily modded stellaris and skyrim.

- I like reading, and have a particular fondness for hard sci-fi. I am currently reading Stephen Baxter's Xeelee Sequence, and the Expanse novels are a favorite of mine.

- I also enjoy a broad range of outdoor activities during the too-short warm season here in New England. Some of the things I like to do outside include snorkeling and swimming in the ocean, looking at tide pools, and beach clean-up. I also love tent camping but I haven't been in ages so it'd be really nice to meet someone who would be interested in doing that with me.

Here's what I'm looking for in a partner:

- childfree, of course

- atheist

- vegan, or at least vegetarian. I have tried dating non-vegans in the past and the difference in values is really difficult to reconcile.

- not right wing politically

- appreciates an honest and direct communication style

- preferably sober. If you do stuff in moderation I can be ok with that as long as you respect my not wanting to be around it. Smoking or vaping is an absolute non-starter, though.

- I work odd hours and cannot use my phone at work for the most part. In my off-time I also value not being glued to my phone, and I don't use social media or anything like that. That's not to say that I am not communicative, but I am not constantly available the way people are often expected to be these days, so you'd need to be ok with that.

- I am looking to meet someone living at least relatively local to me. Physical presence and intimacy are extremely important to me when it comes to building and maintaining romantic relationships. Unfortunately my current career path absolutely requires me to live in Greater Boston so relocation is not an option. I am not married to my career by any means but it pays the bills in a very high cost of living area and has excellent job security so I don't see myself making a change at any point in the foreseeable future given the state of the economy.

If you send me a message, please also be willing to share some recent photos of yourself. Thanks for reading!

u/Maryjanethejellyfish — 11 days ago
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Black cat seeking golden retriever!

Currently in NW DC, potentially moving to Chicago (on the table), but also open to another major city (terms and restrictions apply).

I'm an unapologetic feminist and progressive. Boy mom to a dog, a cat, and 70+ houseplants. My week is split getting 90–100k steps with my dog and kitty cuddles on the couch. In between all that, I stay busy lifting, meal prepping, and perfecting every cottage cheese recipe I can find.

By day I work in healthcare data and by night, I’m getting insanely good sleep, and I like to take full advantage of living in DC! That means everything from comedy classes, live shows, dancing, stumbling into cultural events, and saying yes to things that scare me a little (rugby — one word: ouch). I also love hosting, curating friend groups, and organizing outings.

Finding a man who actually believes in love right now is harder than finding a true Santa believer, but I’ve always liked a challenge ;) I’m looking for someone who shows up, is emotionally available, a good listener, self-aware, and not allergic to vulnerability or an honest conversation. Someone with a real life: hobbies, friends, ambition, someone who’s working on himself and has the bandwidth to actually date. I’m looking for someone with depth, warmth, and who wants a monogamous LTR (not just a situationship). City-dwellers with romantic and flirty vibes are a must (and a plus)!

If you’re in the right chapter of your life, looking to get on the same page (and maybe end up on the same sentence), DM me :) Ages 28-48.

u/fancyfeasterr — 9 days ago
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Finding childfree women in my area has been rare so giving this a shot.

About me: Hi, I’m a 31 year old based in the Cleveland, Ohio area working in banking (can elaborate more on what I specifically do privately). I’m a big music lover, I enjoy listening to it, going to concerts, collecting records, and finding new artists. I mostly like indie/alt rock stuff. I am learning to play guitar, which is a recent venture. I’m also an avid gym-goer, bookworm, horror movie buff, and college football junkie. Some other things I enjoy include grabbing drinks with friends and family, thrifting, traveling, and going to sporting events (baseball and football games). Physically, I’m on the shorter side (5’6).

What I’m looking for: I’m seeking a long-term partner with shared values who is communicative, empathetic, funny, and enjoys going out and doing stuff but also having cozy nights in. Also someone who likes to travel and see new places. I am very left-leaning and politics is something I care about. I don’t make it my entire personality, but I’m not interested in dating a conservative.

Monogamy only. Age range: 25-39 preferably closer to my age.

If this sparks any interest, message me with your favorite song or album at the moment, and a photo.

u/PardonMeSatan — 9 days ago
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Hey Im Wolfgang 24 years old from east Germany close to Dresden.

There is a lot of stuff going on at the moment, but despite all of that I want to once again try my luck with this love and romance thing.

Im 1,72m tall and slightly overweight, though not that much I hope 😅. I work in Research with a shift system, so work hours can be all over the place.

Im searching for someone between 20 and 28 years old, though It ultimatly depends on chemistry, so if you think you got it, shoot your shot😉

I live alone in a small house in the country side, with my Dog. She is a handfull sometimes, but also loves everyone 😅

Im going to be honest and say that dating me can be a Challenge, my Family is a mess and I do have some mental health struggles including depression and social anxiety. I am in therapy for these things, and am hopeful that it will get better. But my full personality is not Something I can describe in a few short paragraphs(believe me I tried😂)

I'm generally a homebody and Generally dislike going out, but that doesn't mean that I am opposed to vacation and travel every once in a while, just not something I would do on my own every day.

Comicon is an exception though, i like to Cosplay every once in a while as a mechanicus Tech priest 🤖

If you have an interest in nature and science I'm all there for it, I like fossil hunting and have a bunch of Aquariums featuring, but are not Limited to: anchor Catfish, bristle nose pleco, kuhli noodles and Medaka rice fish

I also like crafting, so when you have a project in mind I'm there to help in any way I can.

So now a few things about you:

If you don't think that Depression and social anxiety are something that you have the capacity to deal with I'm certainly not for you. I know what it can do to other people and it's quite a Challenge.

Smoking, excessive drinking and weed or other drugs are not things I can tolerante. If you are in the process of quiting, then I can live with for some time and help you to the best of my abilities to reach your goal.

Well that's about it for my short introduction, if you find me interesting DM me 😜

Bonus: I got a Vasectomy in 2024 that's the Darwin Award 🤫😉

u/lonly_wolf_ — 7 days ago
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Hi!
I’m Luísa, a 32 year old demissexual woman who lives in Brazil. This is my second time posting here, the first one didn’t go too great, so I’ll try to add more information. Please read all of it before sending me a message!
A little about me:
I work as a video editor, my hobbies are listening to music, learning how to draw, writing poetry (and sometimes fanfiction) and going to the movies.
My most listened to artists on Spotify are currently Hozier, Nothing But Thieves, Mitski, My Chemical Romance and Rina Sawayama, though I listen to a whole lot of different genres, and I’m addicted to making themed playlists (I think I have around 40 by now).
I love reading, but can’t stand anything non-fiction. Last read book was I Who Have Never Known Men. I like thrillers, speculative fiction and am into romantasy, also.
I love cats and have two, they’re my babies and liking cats is non-negotiable to me. Other non-negotiables include: being childfree (obviously), having good hygiene (also obviously), not watching porn, being respectful of boundaries, especially because I am an introvert and always need some time to recharge by myself. Loyalty and honesty.
If it matters at all, I am a Sagittarius sun, Pisces moon, and my Myers-Briggs personality type is INFP. I’m a left-leaning feminist. MONOGAMOUS! and demissexual. I don’t like sports (I know, a Brazilian who doesn’t care for soccer, shocking). I’m reserved, but a big goofball once you get to know me.
I’m interested in a long lasting relationship with someone that I genuinely click with.
I think this is a good summary for starters, so if you’re interested, please send me your resume (because I think it’d be fun lol, but feel free to get creative if you want! Just please send an actual intro about yourself, not just “hey”.)
It would also be preferable if you attached a picture of yourself, since I have done so here.
Please have in mind that I will not be sharing my phone number, social media or other forms of contact unless we actually form a connection. If you send me anything inappropriate, you will be blocked and reported accordingly.

u/HappenToBeHere_ — 14 days ago