u/Fluffy-Chemistry-431

Lack of social/conversation skills

Hi,

I am from Austria and I suck at conversations and am socially akward/shy
everytime time a person approaches me for small talk or a conversation I get very anxious like why is this person talking to or what do they want from me

additionally my brain kinda freezes (dont know how describe it precily) and I dont know how to talk to them or what about

everytime I see people hanging around and talking for hours I feel envious of how they are able to talk so much and never run out of things to say, it almost feels like a mistery to me

I know I can work on my shyness but I dont know how to get better at holding conversations, even small talk feels complicated for me

Hope to hear your experiences or tips how I can improve my lack of social/conversation skills

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u/Fluffy-Chemistry-431 — 6 days ago

Lack of social/conversation skills

Hi,

I am from Austria and I suck at conversations and am socially akward/shy
everytime time a person approaches me for small talk or a conversation I get very anxious like why is this person talking to or what do they want from me

additionally my brain kinda freezes (dont know how describe it precily) and I dont know how to talk to them or what about

everytime I see people hanging around and talking for hours I feel envious of how they are able to talk so much and never run out of things to say, it almost feels like a mistery to me

I know I can work on my shyness but I dont know how to get better at holding conversations, even small talk feels complicated for me

Hope to hear your experiences or tips how I can improve my lack of social/conversation skills

reddit.com
u/Fluffy-Chemistry-431 — 6 days ago

lack of social/conversation skills

Hi,

I am from Austria and I suck at conversations and am socially akward/shy
everytime time a person approaches me for small talk or a conversation I get very anxious like why is this person talking to or what do they want from me

additionally my brain kinda freezes (dont know how describe it precily) and I dont know how to talk to them or what about

everytime I see people hanging around and talking for hours I feel envious of how they are able to talk so much and never run out of things to say, it almost feels like a mistery to me

I know I can work on my shyness but I dont know how to get better at holding conversations, even small talk feels complicated for me

Hope to hear your experiences or tips how I can improve my lack of social/conversation skills

reddit.com
u/Fluffy-Chemistry-431 — 6 days ago