u/Flowerbomb95

To the girl on the cliff, I still remember you.

How you saw all the colours of the world, how you still believed in the good in people, how you loved unconditionally.

You are still beautiful.

So I’m quite the way down the line, a good few years now since I was ghosted.

For reference he ended the relationship by blocking me- no warnings, no major red flag behaviour or arguments. Up until then, I was head over heels, he would show up for me in ways I’d never experienced before. It wasn’t idolisation as we had our differences but rather full appreciation and respect.

Anyways.

Here we are, after all that heartbreak, laughing about the fact I’m still blocked. That is wild to me.

Just for reference, this was my first experience of being ghosted; as well being blocked by a man. I had no idea people did this until this guy, I’m in my 30’s.

I haven’t experienced anything like this since- likely because I now struggle to let anyone close after that experience.

What I mean to say is, it does get easier, as time goes on you will find a different perspective. It may take some mental gymnastics but one day you will wake up not thinking about them.

Sending love and hugs.

You are the perfect memory.