u/Flimsy-Top-711

Why can’t I let myself be upset?

I just want to say these are my feelings to me personally. I definitely don’t feel this way about other people’s trauma and absolutely never would. And I’m not really looking for answers. I know the only answer is therapy really.

How can I let myself feel the emotions from this and not shut them down? Everytime something reminds me of what happened or him I shut down anything that I’m feeling. I feel like it wasn’t that bad so I don’t deserve to be upset about it. I feel so over dramatic everytime something upsets me about it. I don’t understand why I feel ashamed for being upset about it.

The only thing I can feel about it is overwhelming anxiety. My brain will not let me cry or empathize with me on it. If it was anyone else I would be absolutely pissed but I can’t be for myself. I know what happened was bad. I just can’t get myself to feel that way for me. It just happened in February so maybe I just have to give myself more time.

Thank you for reading my little rant 💕

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u/Flimsy-Top-711 — 6 days ago

I’m so tired of being sexualized in the first few days. It makes me feel like a breathing sex toy. It will be going great or I think it is. Then I’m hit with some random inappropriate thing. Like some told me they were going to rub one out in the middle of talking about what she does for work. 😭

Sorry for the rant.

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u/Flimsy-Top-711 — 16 days ago