Islam is NEVER the problem - opinion
Atheist here who identifies as culturally Muslim. I am starting to conclude this. Abusive fanatics who under the guise and cover of Islam commit abuses. It’s MORE about abusing and exploiting religion for their own cynical needs, and LESS about Islam per se. For example, religious parents weaponizing Islam to abusively have control over their children (Islam serving as their pretext); to appear “self-righteous” or more “moral” than others; or to compensate for their own psychological illnesses (plenty got insecurities, unresolved adverse childhood experiences, or narcissism); or a monarchy using Islam as a mere cover to maintain their power (I think the Gulf monarchies particularly Wahhabism fits this)
We should stop conflating an ancient religion with the uneducated, uncivilized, mentally ill people who use and abuse it. Islam, a great religion, represents a proud civilization with massive contribution to mankind. Just about all Abrahamic religions, it has its bad and ugly elements.