u/FixMaximum5384

Hey there, I'm getting ready to try and move out. I'm going to start looking for a roommate with my partner. And this is going to be my first time moving out. I live with a problematic household but for some reason, I've been feeling the biggest guilt in my stomach that I'm a bad person or something. How should I smartly go about moving out? What's your advice with trying to find a roommate to share an apartment with? I would appreciate if you shared your experiences with moving out for the first time and what your advice would be!

(Ik some peoples advice would be to stay with your parents but, They are pretty controlling, and they tend to refused to take the blame for their own actions, and never clean up after themselves.. I rather start living now. Please give advice!) If you have any advice of how to look for a roommate or, even moving out please share!

Hey, I'm an bk amputee, 1 leg. But my left heel has been trying to heal for the past 3 years. I missed out on being 18, 19 and now I'm 20. I'm exhausted. I'm upset and I'm so tired of waiting. I want it off so bad. And everyone, is controlling my life. Telling me to wait, wait wait wait

But I don't care anymore, I don't care. If I got one off I can get it taken off again. But everyone is taking advantage of my disability, everyone is keeping me down. I can't live my life. I'm being babied by my parents and everyone is making the decision for me. I don't know how long this heel is going to take but I'm tired of pain everywhere I step. I can't even make it down a hallway without feeling pain. I feel so limited and sad. I can't wear the shoes I want, I may have to wear medical shoes for the rest of my life and I feel suicidal all the time because of this. Please. If anyone has advice on how I can make my OWN decision, and get this heel taken off. please. Please let me know how you did it. Why you did it. Just please help me out. I'm tired of being in pain, I'm tired of being trapped in my home. I miss my life. And I don't wanna wait the next 3 years having the next surgery on me each time. I'm gonna have surgery again, it's going to be my 10th surgery on my foot. Please someone help me out.