u/Fire_Beard7

I had a hookup with a really cute twink. He was shy but so adorable and I picked him up in my car. We got somewhere discreet and had fun in the backseat.

We madeout, oral and I rimmed him. He had the best reactions and was clearly sensative but so slutty about wanting me. He wanted to have anal but we didn't have lube. He asked if spit would work and I told him it could but (since I was also fingering him) I think he's too tight and it could hurt. He thought about it and asked if it was ok to not do it then and meet up for it another time (he was talking so casually as he asked lol he was stroking me as he talked)

He was so cute and I loved how he was asking permission for his choices being ok and already planning another day with me. I said yeah and we can go to my place next time if he wants (my place was like an hour away from where we were and he couldn't stay that late) and he got happy about being able to be in a bed with me next time. We kept going at it and he wanted to try 69 and we did, we swallowed each other and he helped me get dressed lol. I left him at a gas station he said was close to his house and we madeout before he left, still telling me he wants to meet again and then he gave me some cheese crackers he had lol (so cute)

He left and I went inside to buy a drink and then drove off. As I was driving I spotted him walking. He was so jolly lol, skipping and jumping alot. He spun around as he jumped too and had the biggest smile on him. It was so adorable to see how happy he was after we met and planning to see each other this weekend

Back in HS there were actually quite a few guys who as adults, came out as gay or bi. There was a friend I had who did make some questionable things like want to pee in the same urinal or asked me if I thought he was good looking, who I think is the most attractive guy in our classes, wanted to wear my sweater and other clothes if he could. I found him handsome but wanting to not be suspected on I never tried anything with him but I'm sure he was curious about me

There was another guy who kept taking my stuff, I'd get up and take them back from him and I think he enjoyed me grabbing him or moving his arms. I thought he was trying to mess with me but he'd also send me memes on Facebook but never directly talked, turns out he's gay and had a crush on me. He just didn't know how to go about it.

There's a few other guys that are questionable and who I had some gayish interactions with. Like a guy in baseball who loved to wrestle with me, jump on my back, get in my face and rub noses, hug me and stuff. So I feel like it was just plainly ok to be gay and seen as just a normal accepted thing I could have had a better HS experience and possibly one of them as a boyfriend. Makes me wish sometimes I had my current comfort in being gay back then.

I'm a 27M (top) and when it came to sex I would just get on Grindr, talk to guys and if one seemed cool and I vibed with him I'd plan to meet, I started with guys at 19 after breaking up with my gf. I am bi, or was idk just been with men for a long time now, but I guess I approached it as we need to talk, go on a date and then sex.

Slowly I got used to guys just wanting to skip all that and just go for sex, which I was ok with but only condoms. Once I was off my parents insurance I got prep and doxy and hooked up more often. Still I would try and keep FWB's, at most 3-4 regularly. I've had 3 boyfriends, and after my latest breakup I got tired of wanting to form a relationship, so I began to experiment with just confirming someone is STI free and hooking up nsa. I've had a great time so far. Met a really cute twink and we are seeing each other every weekend (so a FWB), and a twunk who I also see probably every two weeks if our schedule matches up, I got with a small group of gays who like to smoke and jerk together, had my first orgy with them (4 of us in total) and they were treating me as the center of attention. They also want to keep up with me since they try to meet once a month and enjoyed having me join in. One of them is really kinky and likes to go to bathhouses but only with someone he trusts is STI free and on perp, he wants us to have sex there but not let anyone join since he just loves public stuff like that with others watching.

I also recently made a gay friend. We aren't into each other sexually but seems to him I'm a "virgin" to the gay world. Saying I need to go to gay clubs, bars, strip clubs and shows. I never went to Pride either and says I should since I will certainly get attention. Like I said before I just did sneaky, DL hookups and more of a dating aspect. This new approach feels more free and exciting. As long as I'm being careful I think I overall just prefer it. I also think I'm realizing I'm more attractive then I thought.

Showing my face on Sniffies and Grindr has got me more responses and it's a huge confidence boost for me. I've become more verbal and dominating during sex and also seems to be making hookups want to keep seeing me.