u/Fifi_The_Broken

I loved this game

I loved this game

While I can understand why it feels like a knock off, I absolutely enjoyed this game. I liked how you could run around and find different seeds, instead of needing to sell different kinds of fruits and vegetables in large quantities to get the stores to sell more seeds. I really liked the rice Patty fields in the Asian inspired town because I could just plant my seeds and go about my business and check in to harvest.

I know the story was kind of lackluster but... The whole harvest goddess thing never really goes super in-depth from my experience in general. I could expand my disbelief to think that people forgot about the different types of crops over the generations. It's not perfect, and they could have done a little bit more but for what it is it's really good.

The love interest... Granted I haven't seen all of their events, I've only gotten Kanoa, Brandon and Sami, I don't really like how there's less events and kind of nebulous it feels whether you're dating or not once you get to the heart event. Unless they're actually is an item I'm supposed to make and give to them and I just don't know. That's a little disappointing. (I've also only played through the game once so far, I played through as the female farmer)

I like that you can tame animals and have them in your barn, I managed to tame the white unicorn instead of buying a horse. Once I saw it I was very persistent. But I also got the version of the game with the DLC included.

Overall I felt it was a lovely experience, easy to play so it might have been made with younger audiences in mind, or they could have just wanted to implement something new. Not everything stuck but I think it's solid.

I know I'm late to all of this, I prefer to get my games years after they've been a thing that way I can get them for a decent price, but since there's a community of active harvest Moon players in this subreddit I wanted to share. 😊

u/Fifi_The_Broken — 3 days ago

Currently we're living with my dad's girlfriend who is also on the spectrum, which I'm adding for clarity because she does deserve that. I have my issues with her as an individual and some of the things she's done. Such as threatening to call the police on my dad when she was trying to break up with her, giving gifts and then demanding them back, and victim blaming my dad for his last two relationships. (my birth mother and step mother abused him and me and my siblings.)

This is about something that happened a few minutes ago and I'm putting it here because I feel it is a neurodivergent issue.

I can't handle loud noises, slamming doors, squeaky toys, whistles, my Chihuahua bark super loud. And the smoke detector. It hurts my ears in a way I can't describe beyond that. It's not a physical pain but it makes me flinch like it is. I can't control it. I grab my ears and make a noise. I am being honest.

She opened the oven, smoke detector beeps, I react. Didn't blame anyone, didn't comment, I thought it was fine. A few minutes later Dad and her are having an argument because my reaction was unnecessary and she took it personally. He's trying to explain and she doesn't do loud noises well either, I've seen her react with a similar reaction. But it was unnecessary.

I apologize. I'm trying not to cry because I'm trying to give her another chance and the whole situation is telling me I'm wrong. A reaction I can't control is wrong. Not trying to mask myself heavily is wrong. Being me is wrong. It hurts. I express this to dad when he asked in the group chat if we (my brothers and me) could try to avoid reactions like that. I apologized before I saw the texts.

It hurts. I'm genuinely sorry if my reaction comes off like I'm trying to make someone feel bad or get attention, but I genuinely cannot control it. But I'm wrong. I can't be me. Yet again I can't trust someone who swears I could and that they understand because they have similar struggles.

So I had to put it here.

Also, all three of her kids are on the spectrum too, diagnosed asbuegerers and ADHD. (I probably spelled that wrong.) I'm not diagnosed, I can't find a testing place. I'm just trying to give all the information and context I can. Sorry this is disjointed, I'm emotional right now.

Thank you.

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