ew months ago guy texted me on IG, usually I never respond dm-s, but I opened his message, saw that he first texted me in 2022 and then now... I responded and he said I liked his photos from past and he saw me in likes and decided to text me, I said okay let’s have chat, I liked him, he was acting normally and we had chat but I was working and promised to talk later... I texted him and he said that he had momentary situation and I offered to help him (I really thought he was in trouble) but it turned out he was just h*orny and I briefly explained it wasn’t topic that he could discuss with me and I didn't texted back again...
I responded his message the next morning and explained we won’t be doing that... the next day he sent me his half na*ed photo telling "ah sorry, I was sending it to my personal trainer" I was like, ok, no problem - you look good 😄 (I really liked him by appearance) then he asked me to do the same - ofc I refused, I explained I wasn't going to send him my half na*ed photos, he got angry and I blocked him, after some months I unblocked him and he texted again himself asked why I unblocked him, I don't remember what I said, but I wanted to check If he was still interested. We talked and he asked my phone number, also he asked me to send my photos - but not na*ed anymore - just to see me, because my photos were very old as he said (his photos were old too and offered to send new ones If I had interest) I asked why he was so into my appearance, I felt insecure somehow - even tho I have nothing to hide, he got angry again and we had fight...
after some months again, I changed my profile picture and he instantly texted (hey baby), I was not curious anymore and said what was the reason he texted again and he said "now it will be different" I said okay, but he disappeared, so I texted him if everything was okay and said that his phone was broken and he was thinking about me, of course he again asked for my pictures and I said no and he explained that my attitude pushes him away - he likes me (I don't believe) and he said I am very respectful girl, a girl to marry - how he explained... I sent him my pic, I took it before sending and he saw me - then he decided to he wanted sexting - without me asking, ofc we fought... I still changed my photo and ofc he texted compliment about my lips - he wanted brief talk about sex but I am not comfortable and said no... he got angry, also he wanted to buy me a dress to see me in that dress I said no and he became furious and said he didn't want to see my name anymore (I thought he was joking about dress and started to joke myself) I texted him and said that I don't wanted to act rudely and he still was furious and said it is better for us not to talk anymore and it was finished. I said ok, next day he texted again and that I can't even send him photo of myself (full body) and it is important for him because he is a man and he has "needs", I said "but you said you don’t want to see my name, and he liked my response next day he texted that he saw me in his dream and send me his "morning picture" he was topless, wearing short and was hard))) of course I didn't respond and I am not going to
Guys, I want to know - What he wants? l mean I don't trust him, I am sure he is doing this with other girls (he said I am only one), what he wants from me - I am very naive as it seems, I can’t guess people's thoughts properly
(Thanks you if you read this whole essay ❤️ )