I don't know why I feel this way. Anyone has been through similar feelings?
I’ve been feeling like this for a really long time. Sometimes I can be genuinely happy and calm for a few days, and then suddenly I become very sad for no clear reason. Lately, I don’t have energy for anything, I don’t want to do anything, and even though I have people around me, I still feel alone sometimes. What confuses me is that I want people to be with me, but at the same time I want to isolate myself. I live my life very logically I acknowledge my problems, I understand them, and I know I should work on them, but emotionally I still can’t fully control how I feel. Birthdays especially make me emotional. Every year I get genuinely sad, embarrassed, or uncomfortable around celebrating. I never really liked birthdays, I don’t expect anything from people, and I often don’t even want to celebrate. But when nothing happens, I still end up feeling sad about it. Even when people try to surprise me or celebrate with me, it still doesn’t feel right. That’s why my feelings confuse me so much. I know I have many reasons to be grateful I’m safe, I have people around me, and objectively my life is okay but sometimes I still feel deeply sad out of nowhere. I’ve started wondering if these are depressive periods or something similar, because the emotional rollercoasters have been happening for a very long time. The hardest part is not understanding why I feel this way when logically I feel like I shouldn’t.