Been a lurker for long, first time poster. I'm thinking about organizing a pride themed poetry meet in Delhi next weekend. I've seen a lot of people share their poetry and writing on this subreddit. Why not be able to share such stuffs in person? With people you can trust and make friends.
What do you think? Will anyone attend?
I dated this woman for 4 years. When I met her I wasn't attracted to her at all, I wasn't interested in her much, but she went out of her way to do things for me and guilty young me bought into the love bombing and gave her a chance.
I am bi, and she was a lesbian. She was very insecure about her body and it was true that nobody gave her attention until she went above and beyond to prove that she needed it.
She always told me that she wanted to feel beautiful and be in her dark feminine era and that she feels jealous of that attention I get, and she doesn't know how to achieve that, so I did what any good gf does.
I made her a glow up plan.
Literally I would put my face masks and hair masks on her, I made her a skin care routine, a gym routine, a diet, I motivated her when she didn't feel like working out. I worshiped her body like she is some goddess.
She was a stay at home daughter and despite knowing that I have a stressful job and family situation, I still made all the efforts towards caring for her and she continued to tell me that I'm not doing enough and I'm not giving her time.
I believed her so I made even more efforts.
She had her glow up and I moved to a different city while she stayed back.
After 4 months of doing long distance I got to know she is cheating when she sent me a text that wasn't meant for me.
Please don't fall for such manipulative people. Don't lower your standards for anyone, it is better to stay single than to date someone like her.
Some people will only use you for your body and how you can benefit them and you will stop mattering to them once you have served their purposes.
Stop thinking everyone who is nice to you deserves a chance just because they are nice to you.