Every now and then, I would try to search for it, completely forgetting all the details except the alien world with the cool aliens. Which, looking at it now, kind of gives a certain other movie vibes. I didn't even really like the movie. I feel like it could have been so much better. What are your thoughts on this movie? Do you even remember it?
I think it's dead here lol, I know Springfield is more active, just wondering if anyone is more in the area
20F
My fantasies don't translate to reality. So when I try to trick myself that I actually like intamcy and the only reason im iffy in it is because i'm not used to being touched or relationships. But thats not the case.
Im accepting myself, that I am ace, that I'm actually seeking a lifelong platonic partner. And that I dont enjoy cuddling or holding hands or sexual things that go along with the relationships around me.
This all happend because I liked a boy and he was perfect (for someone who isn't ace), was taking things slow with me because I told him im not used to any of it. Told him I could be ace, but dont want to label it, dont want get too into it, (because obviously I didnt want to accept it.) And he listened. When it came down to it in the end i couldnt accept his acts of intamcy without feeling fear and icked out. Unfortunately we weren't compatible in thst way because of this.
Libido and sexual attraction are different and I wish I knew it sooner. Anyway yeah I hope someone relates in wanting to fit in depite being ace deep down, not feeling attraction like normal people. Aromatic I relate to a lot as well, I feel so freeing in a platonic setting. I came out as ace in middle school but found it so hard to accept that I truly was even tho I aligned with it so closely.