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I’m trying to layout my toddlers room but I just have such FOBO. Was hoping to hear outside opinions. I drew the way the room looks as best as I could. It’s definitely not perfectly scale but pretty close. This place has floor vents so idk how to work around that. We bought her a Montessori floor bed (it’s on the way) and at the moment I just have a 2 drawer dresser and a 9 cubby hole thing. Not a big fan of the furniture but I plan to get more to make the space functional and cute. We had a small apartment before this house so that’s why I have just those two things. Besides the crib that she used to have of course but she’s outgrown that. But I’m mainly curious where it makes most sense to put the bed. We got her a full size mattress. Any other opinions on how you would furnish the room welcome. ◡̈ I thought I would put it on that 85in wall to the left but i have no clue how I’d layout dressers. They’d overlap the window or overcrowd the right wall. My husband says to put it on the wall to the right all the way in the corner but it would cover one of the vents I think, and isn’t it bad to have it right in the door way? I know I’m taking this way serious but I’m an overthinker lol.

Please be kind as I know the answer may be obvious to most but I’m an overthinker and emotionally charged and just want to pick anyone’s brain who has felt this or at least solidarity.

So, I’m a SAHM and I genuinely love being home with my daughter. The light of my life. Shes almost 17 months old. We are not in financial distress. All bills and monthly expenses are covered. This would only be to build savings.

Recently, I reached out to a former employer about weekend work (about 4-hour shifts). They called me back and seemed interested, and I told them I would go ahead and submit an application.

But about 10 minutes after that call, I started feeling sick to my stomach and ended up crying.

Now I feel completely torn. My husband is supportive either way and thinks it would help financially, but emotionally I feel like I would be “quitting” my role at home or abandoning my daughter if I start working weekends. I know that’s not true at all but it is how it feels and has given me a put in my stomach.

I’ve never been away from her for more than a few hours, and the idea of being gone even that long makes me sick to my stomach. I also feel regretful because I told the employer I would apply by the end of the day and it’s now 10pm and still haven’t started and now I feel anxious about seeming unreliable.

I guess I’m just looking for solidarity from anyone who has felt this kind of emotional whiplash when considering going from staying home to very part-time work.

Where would you put the bed in this toddler room?

Feeling a little anxious and guilty about possibly taking weekend work.