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So, 3 days ago, I finally confessed to this girl I've been interested in for half a year now (and who i thought was interested too); gave her a pretty creative and funny confession letter on the last day of the school year.

And of course, I didn't get any response even after 2 whole days. Today being the 3rd.

Yesterday morning, I grew tired of waiting for something i knew was never going to come and I sent her the following message

"I assume your silence means no. I understand. Enjoy your summer vacation I guess"

Basically had to do her own dirty work of rejecting me for her...

There was no response to that too of course. Classic.

But weirdly enough, yesterday, I didn't really feel like I expected I would. I thought I'd break down crying and wouldn't be able to stop thinking about it all week.. y’know like they do in the movies when they get rejected by their crush...

But I felt okay??? Like I was kinda hurt, yes, but I could still function normally:

I laughed at funny reels, I talked to my family and friends, and I happily ate pizza for dinner!!

So yeah... I guess I'm doing pretty well.

Just wanted to share this story with you guys.

Maybe being rejected isn't all that bad? I mean, now at least, I can finally stop thinking about her all day and move on without any regrets.

I hope this encourages or gives hope to someone who needs it.

Have a wonderful day 😊!

So there's this classmate of mine (F19) in uni.

We've always had a pretty fun and casual relationship since last year (1st year of undergrad); tho I have noticed she'd sometimes seem kinda ankward and nervous around me.

On the 10th April of last year, I was struggling to play some videos for my class presentation, and she helped me out a LOT and basically saved my grade that day. So I naturally felt enormously grateful and thanked her.

When I came back and saw a message from her (related to that presentation she was helping me with), I reacted to it with a red heart emoji and didn't think much about it.

Except the next day, she started acting... odd.

She immediately said hello when I sat in class but this time with this wide smile and nervous laugh.

Afterwards, she began to sit near me in class, always initiating conversations and trying to make me laugh (I sometimes would laugh just so she wouldn't feel bad tbh 😅). She'd also begin to constantly tease me about "wanting to marry me" and "really liking me" publicly playing it for laughs I guess?

She settled down after a week or so. So I assumed it was just her being weird.

But this year, it began happening again just a month ago or two: she'd tease me about liking me, would always be respond to my messages in the class group chat and play along with my stupid jokes with stupid jokes of her own, would take pics of me in class and post them there as funny stickers...

One time she was absent in class, she asked the group chat to send a pic of me since she "missed me", and when they did she reacted to it with this emoji:

🫦

Lol I mean it's obviously played as a joke.

But yeah, I don't think I can keep justifying this without sounding any more oblivious.

I think she may have a thing for me..

But what do you guys honestly think? Do girls usually do this type of stuff with other guys?

I don't wanna jump into conclusions..

So, 3 days ago, I finally confessed to this girl I've been interested in for half a year now (and who i thought was interested too); gave her a pretty creative and funny confession letter on the last day of the school year.

And of course, I didn't get any response even after 2 whole days. Today being the 3rd.

Yesterday morning, I grew tired of waiting for something i knew was never going to come and I sent her the following message

"I assume your silence means no. I understand. Enjoy your summer vacation I guess"

Basically had to do her own dirty work of rejecting me for her...

There was no response to that too of course. Classic.

But weirdly enough, yesterday, I didn't really feel like I expected I would. I thought I'd break down crying and wouldn't be able to stop thinking about it all week.. y’know like they do in the movies when they get rejected by their crush...

But I felt okay??? Like I was kinda hurt, yes, but I could still function normally:

I laughed at funny reels, I talked to my family and friends, and I happily ate pizza for dinner!!

So yeah... I guess I'm doing pretty well.

Just wanted to share this story with you guys.

Maybe being rejected isn't all that bad? I mean, now at least, I can finally stop thinking about her all day and move on without any regrets.

I hope this encourages or gives hope to someone who needs it.

Have a wonderful day 😊!

So, 3 days ago, I finally confessed to this girl I've been interested in for half a year now (and who i thought was interested too); gave her a pretty creative and funny confession letter on the last day of the school year.

And of course, I didn't get any response even after 2 whole days. Today being the 3rd.

Yesterday morning, I grew tired of waiting for something i knew was never going to come and I sent her the following message

"I assume your silence means no. I understand. Enjoy your summer vacation I guess"

Basically had to do her own dirty work of rejecting me for her...

There was no response to that too of course. Classic.

But weirdly enough, yesterday, I didn't really feel like I expected I would. I thought I'd break down crying and wouldn't be able to stop thinking about it all week.. y’know like they do in the movies when they get rejected by their crush...

But I felt okay??? Like I was kinda hurt, yes, but I could still function normally:

I laughed at funny reels, I talked to my family and friends, and I happily ate pizza for dinner!!

So yeah... I guess I'm doing pretty well.

Just wanted to share this story with you guys.

Maybe being rejected isn't all that bad? I mean, now at least, I can finally stop thinking about her all day and move on without any regrets.

I hope this encourages or gives hope to someone who needs it.

Have a wonderful day 😊!

So, 3 days ago, I finally confessed to this girl I've been interested in for half a year now (and who i thought was interested too); gave her a pretty creative and funny confession letter on the last day of the school year.

And of course, I didn't get any response even after 2 whole days. Today being the 3rd.

Yesterday morning, I grew tired of waiting for something i knew was never going to come and I sent her the following message

"I assume your silence means no. I understand. Enjoy your summer vacation I guess"

Basically had to do her own dirty work of rejecting me for her...

There was no response to that too of course. Classic.

But weirdly enough, yesterday, I didn't really feel like I expected I would. I thought I'd break down crying and wouldn't be able to stop thinking about it all week.. y’know like they do in the movies when they get rejected by their crush...

But I felt okay??? Like I was kinda hurt, yes, but I could still function normally:

I laughed at funny reels, I talked to my family and friends, and I happily ate pizza for dinner!!

So yeah... I guess I'm doing pretty well.

Just wanted to share this story with you guys.

Maybe being rejected isn't all that bad? I mean, now at least, I can finally stop thinking about her all day and move on without any regrets.

I hope this encourages or gives hope to someone who needs it.

Have a wonderful day 😊!

So, 3 days ago, I finally confessed to this girl I've been interested in for half a year now (and who i thought was interested too); gave her a pretty creative and funny confession letter on the last day of the school year.

And of course, I didn't get any response even after 2 whole days. Today being the 3rd.

Yesterday morning, I grew tired of waiting for something i knew was never going to come and I sent her the following message

"I assume your silence means no. I understand. Enjoy your summer vacation I guess"

Basically had to do her own dirty work of rejecting me for her...

There was no response to that too of course. Classic.

But weirdly enough, yesterday, I didn't really feel like I expected I would. I thought I'd break down crying and wouldn't be able to stop thinking about it all week.. y’know like they do in the movies when they get rejected by their crush...

But I felt okay??? Like I was kinda hurt, yes, but I could still function normally:

I laughed at funny reels, I talked to my family and friends, and I happily ate pizza for dinner!!

So yeah... I guess I'm doing pretty well.

Just wanted to share this story with you guys.

Maybe being rejected isn't all that bad? I mean, now at least, I can finally stop thinking about her all day and move on without any regrets.

I hope this encourages or gives hope to someone who needs it.

Have a wonderful day 😊!