u/FactorGrand6827

Hi, i’ve been struggling for a while now (since late 2024) with picking the skin on my feet and it’s gotten to a point where it’s getting painful and affecting my daily life.

It started with excessive clipping the nail of my pinky toe and also pulling on the skin on the edges of it, then cutting it with nail clippers, then it went on to my other feet until both of my pinky nails ended up so short i had problems wearing shoes and walking normally, eventually i let them grow, but obviously because of the damage i did they now grow extremely fragile.

When i finally stopped doing that i started picking on the skin of my heel, it started with a piece of dry skin then on purposefully pulling giant patches of skin, and when there was nothing i was able to pull with my fingers i’d use a nail clipper. It got so bad that now i have a hard time walking because the pressure from standing on my feet makes my heel hurt really bad, i try to stop but everyday i find myself picking and picking, it’s also embarrassing to show my feet to anyone

I just need advice, how do you keep yourself from doing these things? anyone who has overcome it? I’ll attach a picture

u/FactorGrand6827 — 10 days ago

Hello, i am making this post because i don’t know if i am over exaggerating or if i am right to feel upset about this.

I had a miscarriage (1 month and 2 weeks) in February without even knowing i was pregnant, it was my first baby.

Two days ago my boyfriend invited me to his house because his dad was making a barbecue, he had also invited his grandmother, his aunt and two nieces. We had already ate and were just sitting outside talking, at one point in the conversation his dad mentioned something about wanting grandchildren, i smiled and laughed because it found it very sweet for him to say that, his grandma cut in saying “almost happened”, my heart dropped to my stomach and i went quiet, i wanted to say something but nothing came out and the conversation just went on, i felt very very sad but i didn’t mention it to them or my boyfriend, not even in the afternoon when they left, or the next day.

Today two days after it happened i sent my boyfriend text messages saying something like “i’m sad, when your dad said he wanted grandchildren your grandma said that it almost happened and i feel like it was very uncalled for because it’s still a sensitive topic to me”, i’m afraid he might feel like i am attacking his family or trying to get him to correct her but i just wanted to vent.

Am i exaggerating? should i say something to her when i have an opportunity? and what should i do if he takes it the wrong way

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u/FactorGrand6827 — 11 days ago

i like all types and genres of movies but now i am specifically looking for horror, thriller or psychological movies

also, i enjoy meticulous framing and composition :) well structured plots anddd psychological horror

these are a few of the movies i like so i hope you know any others that are similar, or if you have also enjoyed these movies tell me ones that u like

midsommar
bring her back
hereditary
the kllng of a sacred deer
creep
christiane f

these are all rlly basic i know

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u/FactorGrand6827 — 13 days ago