Hi everyone! So for the past two years i’ve been crushing really hard on this guy. I’m now a junior (about to be a senior) and I still like him. I’m the type of person that doesn’t develop crushes easily, other than this guy I can count on one hand how many I’ve had since elementary school. So two years ago I moved to a different country (Mexico) and I was in the same class with this guy (Well call him M) Basically, M is super handsome, but honestly not what I usually went for. So it was weird for me to like him, I thought at first I only likes him cause I saw a cute boy staring. It sounds dumb, but before I moved managed to improve my looks slightly, so I wasn’t even used to be seen by guys. Anyways, over that time I let it go, and we move on to high school. (I know it’s confusing, but I moved to mexico 2 years ago ‘9th grade’ and then my highschool is only a two year school, so this year “10th” is actually my 11th grade year and the next is my 12th, just to make sure we’re all following!) Anyways so, we get into the same class again, and I still have a crush on him. Over some time, it’s getting to the point where I can’t even get into relationships, or even talking stages cause I liked him so much. And it didn’t help that he’d always stare, get shy around me, and when he did talk to me he was super nice. Finally, I decided i’d be more obvious after finding out through one of his friends that M never knew I liked him. So, my thought process was; “maybe he doesn’t like anyone cause he thinks I don’t like him.” So I subtly started to drop hints the best someone can when you have never talked to their crush for more than five minutes. So anyways, I ended up liking his story, and after he started acting different. He’d try to get near me in group settings, he’d come into my classes a lot, he’d talk in english with his friends a lot more, and of course stare… But the biggest thing was his friends saying things like, “You were staring at her weren’t you?” or “Why were you so closeee??” Just things like that. Anyways, I was so sure he liked me, I mean what else could that all mean? Well, I found out through some friends he doesn’t like me. And the worst part is I don’t even know why, I mean. I’m not pretty, and since two years ago I look a lot better, but I’m not the prettiest girl. And I would be lying if I said he wasn’t handsome, he’s literally the most handsome guy I’ve ever met. But now to what i’m dealing with, he says he doesn’t like me, and yeah okay, I believe it. But, he keeps staring. It’s so often that my friends notice, and it’s been everyday for the past week. He’s staring constantly, like today we had a meeting at a college, so the other branch of our school came. I got to see people from the other school, and I was looking at them (they were guys) and as I turn back to face the speaker, I see M looking dead at me, and he turns away, then my friend leans over and says that the whole time he was staring. And multiple times today, and the last few weeks. I’m stuck, he doesn’t like me, but stares at me and only me, and even my friends and his friends have confirmed it, what does this mean? and what should I do?
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Hi everyone! So for the past two years i’ve been crushing really hard on this guy. I’m now a junior (about to be a senior) and I still like him. I’m the type of person that doesn’t develop crushes easily, other than this guy I can count on one hand how many I’ve had since elementary school. So two years ago I moved to a different country (Mexico) and I was in the same class with this guy (Well call him M) Basically, M is super handsome, but honestly not what I usually went for. So it was weird for me to like him, I thought at first I only likes him cause I saw a cute boy staring. It sounds dumb, but before I moved managed to improve my looks slightly, so I wasn’t even used to be seen by guys. Anyways, over that time I let it go, and we move on to high school. (I know it’s confusing, but I moved to mexico 2 years ago ‘9th grade’ and then my highschool is only a two year school, so this year “10th” is actually my 11th grade year and the next is my 12th, just to make sure we’re all following!) Anyways so, we get into the same class again, and I still have a crush on him. Over some time, it’s getting to the point where I can’t even get into relationships, or even talking stages cause I liked him so much. And it didn’t help that he’d always stare, get shy around me, and when he did talk to me he was super nice. Finally, I decided i’d be more obvious after finding out through one of his friends that M never knew I liked him. So, my thought process was; “maybe he doesn’t like anyone cause he thinks I don’t like him.” So I subtly started to drop hints the best someone can when you have never talked to their crush for more than five minutes. So anyways, I ended up liking his story, and after he started acting different. He’d try to get near me in group settings, he’d come into my classes a lot, he’d talk in english with his friends a lot more, and of course stare… But the biggest thing was his friends saying things like, “You were staring at her weren’t you?” or “Why were you so closeee??” Just things like that. Anyways, I was so sure he liked me, I mean what else could that all mean? Well, I found out through some friends he doesn’t like me. And the worst part is I don’t even know why, I mean. I’m not pretty, and since two years ago I look a lot better, but I’m not the prettiest girl. And I would be lying if I said he wasn’t handsome, he’s literally the most handsome guy I’ve ever met. But now to what i’m dealing with, he says he doesn’t like me, and yeah okay, I believe it. But, he keeps staring. It’s so often that my friends notice, and it’s been everyday for the past week. He’s staring constantly, like today we had a meeting at a college, so the other branch of our school came. I got to see people from the other school, and I was looking at them (they were guys) and as I turn back to face the speaker, I see M looking dead at me, and he turns away, then my friend leans over and says that the whole time he was staring. And multiple times today, and the last few weeks. I’m stuck, he doesn’t like me, but stares at me and only me, and even my friends and his friends have confirmed it, what does this mean? and what should I do?
Hi everyone! So for the past two years i’ve been crushing really hard on this guy. I’m now a junior (about to be a senior) and I still like him. I’m the type of person that doesn’t develop crushes easily, other than this guy I can count on one hand how many I’ve had since elementary school. So two years ago I moved to a different country (Mexico) and I was in the same class with this guy (Well call him M) Basically, M is super handsome, but honestly not what I usually went for. So it was weird for me to like him, I thought at first I only likes him cause I saw a cute boy staring. It sounds dumb, but before I moved managed to improve my looks slightly, so I wasn’t even used to be seen by guys. Anyways, over that time I let it go, and we move on to high school. (I know it’s confusing, but I moved to mexico 2 years ago ‘9th grade’ and then my highschool is only a two year school, so this year “10th” is actually my 11th grade year and the next is my 12th, just to make sure we’re all following!) Anyways so, we get into the same class again, and I still have a crush on him. Over some time, it’s getting to the point where I can’t even get into relationships, or even talking stages cause I liked him so much. And it didn’t help that he’d always stare, get shy around me, and when he did talk to me he was super nice. Finally, I decided i’d be more obvious after finding out through one of his friends that M never knew I liked him. So, my thought process was; “maybe he doesn’t like anyone cause he thinks I don’t like him.” So I subtly started to drop hints the best someone can when you have never talked to their crush for more than five minutes. So anyways, I ended up liking his story, and after he started acting different. He’d try to get near me in group settings, he’d come into my classes a lot, he’d talk in english with his friends a lot more, and of course stare… But the biggest thing was his friends saying things like, “You were staring at her weren’t you?” or “Why were you so closeee??” Just things like that. Anyways, I was so sure he liked me, I mean what else could that all mean? Well, I found out through some friends he doesn’t like me. And the worst part is I don’t even know why, I mean. I’m not pretty, and since two years ago I look a lot better, but I’m not the prettiest girl. And I would be lying if I said he wasn’t handsome, he’s literally the most handsome guy I’ve ever met. But now to what i’m dealing with, he says he doesn’t like me, and yeah okay, I believe it. But, he keeps staring. It’s so often that my friends notice, and it’s been everyday for the past week. He’s staring constantly, like today we had a meeting at a college, so the other branch of our school came. I got to see people from the other school, and I was looking at them (they were guys) and as I turn back to face the speaker, I see M looking dead at me, and he turns away, then my friend leans over and says that the whole time he was staring. And multiple times today, and the last few weeks. I’m stuck, he doesn’t like me, but stares at me and only me, and even my friends and his friends have confirmed it, what does this mean? and what should I do?