School book fair today. All I had was $20's so I left one on counter for each kiddo. Silly me forgot to remind them to bring home their change. Later on 9yo tells me he gave his $7 change to a friend. The friend had brought in his own $10. Why am I buying this kid a book?
I had felt bad for the kids as mom was telling 9yo might have to spend his own money for book fair(for some reason). Silly me I thought she was trying to teach him a finance lesson. No way I thought she would go from "You're too old for us to buy your book fair books" to 'give away dad's money'.
But it feels like a set-up. I wasn't happy he gave away my money and we had to have a talk. Which of course seemed ridiculous to him because mom told him to do it. And she never does anything wrong. She technically didn't do anything wrong. So she won't apologize and I kinda come out like the bad guy here.
I recognize the trivial nature of this. I can't explain why this is so exasperating. I did a solid workout and I'm still steamed.
This woman once (rightfully) made our son give back a Pokemon card to a classmate because we don't take bribes for friendship. She "doesn't remember" this.
We saw the other parents tonight at school and I was shocked they didn't try to give the money back. I would have been horrified if my kid took money from a classmate and bought his own book.
I am so mad and I can't talk to anybody. I am waiting for her to come home so i can take a walk. I know this is the stupidest thing ever, but it created conflict for me and my son. Am I completely off base and unreasonable here?