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Assalam o alaikum everyone. I need help & if anyone can give me an advice I would be grateful. I want an Islamic point of view on this.

So currently im working with my parents on a shop they own but im very unmotivated to work. Somedays ill work and some ill do nothing and I feel very bad about it because I want to help my parents and I want to make Allah happy. We, as Muslims are 'obligated' to work and all im doing is not working, instead im watching movies & playing video games. Im so unmotivated to work because I dont like the work im doing.

I won't go to details about the work im doing because I want to keep this private but I dont want to disappoint my parents by not working and they've already done more than enough for me, I want to make them happy & rest and also, for Allah, that im working instead of doing nothing so when I meet him in the afterlife, inshallah, there is something that I actually did and not just sit & play games.

I'm still making du'aa to Allah to help me, but I feel so lost. I keep thinking about making my parents & Allah happy but I dont have any motivation to do it. If anyone can help, please let me know. Thank you.

Hello, whats a packaged healthy snack that I can snack on the go instead of making something in the kitchen? I'm not trying to lose weight or have any restrictions I just want to reduce the amount of 'unhealthy' snacks I eat because its clearly ruining my digestive system & i cant keep doing that to myself. Thank you

Hello, whats a packaged healthy snack that I can snack on the go instead of making something in the kitchen? I'm not trying to lose weight or have any restrictions I just want to reduce the amount of 'unhealthy' snacks I eat because its clearly ruining my digestive system & i cant keep doing that to myself. For example, I've been trying to replace gummy candy to the 'Yumearth' brand gummies, maybe its not the best option out there but its a bit 'healthier' i guess lol.

Unless you seriously dont have resources to do what you wish to do, why dont you do it?? I've heard many people say "I wish I can draw..." or "I wish I can travel..." and they DO have the available resources but they DONT DO IT. Go learn how to draw, go travel, go do whatever you want to do instead of being wishful of it.

Even the thing that you wish to do takes time, START doing it. Why are you just wishful thinking, why dont you do it????

people in this country are so patriotic/nationalist its insane. Like why are they acting like this country is the BEST country in the world & any one who criticises it is basically evil, can't the people chill tf down?? this patriotism basically turned into racism as well, because they believe they are the best out of EVERYONE in this world, like God made them the chosen ones. And because of this, im ASHAMED to be part of this country.

I'm not a patriotic person at all, I hate this country but seeing them on social media boasting about their country in a cult-ish way annoys me. Why am I born here, to country where 90% of the people think they're the best. Even if someone says anything online, they need to include themselves or fight everyone instead, thats it. Like shut the fuck up, you are nothing, this country is nothing. I'm so mad & upset that im part of this, something I DIDNT CHOOSE. And yet, because I am here, im by extension part of this group. Like fucking cult-ish following. I wish they would chill tf down with EVERYTHING. stupid fucking nationalists, I dont want to be part of this shit.