u/ExternalPlatypus8398

Curly Hair Care

Curly Hair Care

So this is my hair after washing last night and sleeping. It’s obviously not as curly since I slept on it but wanted some advice on how to keep curls intact and looking fresh not frizzy for 2-3 days post wash.

Tbh any and all polite advice is welcomed.

My routine is :

Shampoo 1st with Pantene Sheer volume and then 2nd Shampoo with Dove Intensive Repair Damage Therapy

I didn’t use it here but I sometimes use L’Oréal Elvie Hyaluron Wonder Water or the 8 Second Wonder Water

Condition with Dove Intensive Repair Damage and sometimes use the Mask but I didn’t use the mask last night

For Styling:

I use Pantene Miracle Rescue 10 in 1 Spray , L’Oréal Hyaluron Plump Hair Serum, California Naturals Anti-Thinning Scalp Serum, Miss Jessie’s Pillow Soft Curls and Jelly Soft Curls , Pantene Miracle Rescue 3in1 as a leave in conditioner.

Sprayed the sprays on my scalp and hair , used the CN Serum on my scalp and everything else was just mixed together and applied from upper hair (not scalp) to ends and then brushed my hair out and let it dry naturally.

I didn’t use OGX Penetrating Hair oil as a pre shower oil or K-18 Molecular Repair Mask but I do have those products and sometimes use them as well. I also recently got (but didn’t use) the Dove Intensive Repair Amino Serum.

Whatever products I didn’t use last night was just based on laziness and wanting to wash my hair quickly.

I let my hair air dry and just slept with it as is. I did not refresh it this morning. This pic is who I woke up.

All Black Dress Code

How do we feel about an all black dress code?

Does it feel too close to funeral attire?

It is chic and elegant or just bland and boring?

PSA: this is not for my wedding - just something I’ve seen and heard people doing and wanted to get an opinion about

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u/ExternalPlatypus8398 — 3 days ago
▲ 5 r/AITAH

My Husband is a groomsman in an upcoming wedding and I high-key don’t want to attend.

Things have changed since I RSVP’d and the couple (particularly the groom) makes me not want to attend. 

The Save The Dates went out last year and the invitation went out about 2 1/2 months before the wedding.

Right after my husband was asked to be a groomsman (which IMHO) is kinda late to be asking only in that it should have been something discussed much earlier. You never know what that can entail for someone - each person is different when it comes to their wedding.

After accepting , we found out that the groomsman planned a bachelor trip. The trip was a month before the wedding and details were only finalized right before the trip. My husband - went to support his friend and I didn’t have a problem with that - only in that everything was decided so last minute - flights became more expensive and it wasn’t an expense we had time to plan and allocate funds for because it came up so last minute.

On the trip - the bachelor party ended up at a strip club. My husband was unaware of these plans (thinking they were going to a regular club) and was uncomfortable with the whole situation. He ended up leaving the club very soon after arriving and FaceTimed me to complain.

After the trip - we find out that the groomsmen have to get a particular outfit that costs hundreds of dollars. An expense that was not shared when he was initially asked.

To top it all off - even though my husband inquired a while back but was not given an answer - we now have to arrive separately and pay double the fare to go - which was not in our original plans.

AITAH if I don’t go to the wedding due to how disorganized and last minute things have been? For the financial inconvenience due to last minute planning and decisions? For the events of the bachelor party?

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u/ExternalPlatypus8398 — 10 days ago