For context my study permit expires 2027 December 31, and my last day of class is the fall semester, December around the 20th.
The problem I’m facing is that I fear I might not have enough time to apply for my pgwp since my graduation isn’t until the following year. My letter of completion says it’ll come 2-4 weeks after last day of classes but that isn’t still enough time.
What do I do? I need advice
So me and this girl let’s call her pie started talking in November last year things were good.
Fast forward to January this year we had an argument that occurred due to miscommunication.
We talked things out and realized she misunderstood me and I kinda forced her to take accountability for that ever since that pie started bringing up the statement “I have not settled”.
Things started to sexual between us so we made plans to book a hotel together for a couple days.
As time passed pie would constantly remind me about the hotel plans but I was in college full time and working part time but pie wasn’t cause she failed her program and wasn’t employed. I usually work most weekends and move the date farther away in hopes I don’t work that weekend.
This caused us to not see for weeks but I also told pie that we could hangout normally that it doesn’t have to be at a hotel to see each other just tell me when you’re free and I’ll make time from my schedule.
I made plans for a Monday and told pie I wanted to see her, which she agreed to. I called off work so we can meet at college before going to the date cause she lives close to the college. Guess what pie bailed on me and said she didn’t feel like leaving her house that day. I texted her saying I know somethings wrong and it’s regarding her not settling she should tell me or else I’ll back down and let her settle by herself cause I want her to so I could ask pie to be my girlfriend.
Pie said I haven’t been doing enough, I replied and told her I don’t know what else she needs but she claimed I knew. I told her she wasn’t doing enough either by at least appreciating. Pie claimed she wasn’t doing enough cause she hasn’t settled and why would I expect her to. This caused another argument and we didn’t talk for a day. I slept if off and tried reaching her the next day turns out I was blocked and I received a text for her saying I’m not the one for her.
Now here comes the shame for me: I spam called her using multiple numbers, I found her address through picture location and went to see her but she wasn’t there. I wasn’t in the right state of mind when I got blocked and it made me panic and find ways to reach her. Later that day she found out I went to her house and called me asking how I found her address, the call lead to us talking, I found out why she said I wasn’t for her and it was because I was treating her badly and her idea of me treating her badly was not planning any dates or taking her out.
This led to me begging for another chance and to which till this day I don’t know why I did that.
Even after she said no I still tried being in contact with her with different numbers again saying how i missed us and all that.
I knew it wasn’t healthy and told myself the only way i can forget her is to hate her so I sent a hate text message and she replied, I was shocked when she did cause that meant she saw all other messages of me saying I still loved her but chose to reply to the hate one.
So me and this girl let’s call her pie started talking in November last year things were good.
Fast forward to January this year we had an argument that occurred due to miscommunication.
We talked things out and realized she misunderstood me and I kinda forced her to take accountability for that ever since that pie started bringing up the statement “I have not settled”.
Things started to sexual between us so we made plans to book a hotel together for a couple days.
As time passed pie would constantly remind me about the hotel plans but I was in college full time and working part time but pie wasn’t cause she failed her program and wasn’t employed. I usually work most weekends and move the date farther away in hopes I don’t work that weekend.
This caused us to not see for weeks but I also told pie that we could hangout normally that it doesn’t have to be at a hotel to see each other just tell me when you’re free and I’ll make time from my schedule.
I made plans for a Monday and told pie I wanted to see her, which she agreed to. I called off work so we can meet at college before going to the date cause she lives close to the college. Guess what pie bailed on me and said she didn’t feel like leaving her house that day. I texted her saying I know somethings wrong and it’s regarding her not settling she should tell me or else I’ll back down and let her settle by herself cause I want her to so I could ask pie to be my girlfriend.
Pie said I haven’t been doing enough, I replied and told her I don’t know what else she needs but she claimed I knew. I told her she wasn’t doing enough either by at least appreciating. Pie claimed she wasn’t doing enough cause she hasn’t settled and why would I expect her to. This caused another argument and we didn’t talk for a day. I slept if off and tried reaching her the next day turns out I was blocked and I received a text for her saying I’m not the one for her.
Now here comes the shame for me: I spam called her using multiple numbers, I found her address through picture location and went to see her but she wasn’t there. I wasn’t in the right state of mind when I got blocked and it made me panic and find ways to reach her. Later that day she found out I went to her house and called me asking how I found her address, the call lead to us talking, I found out why she said I wasn’t for her and it was because I was treating her badly and her idea of me treating her badly was not planning any dates or taking her out.
This led to me begging for another chance and to which till this day I don’t know why I did that.
Even after she said no I still tried being in contact with her with different numbers again saying how i missed us and all that.
I knew it wasn’t healthy and told myself the only way i can forget her is to hate her so I sent a hate text message and she replied, I was shocked when she did cause that meant she saw all other messages of me saying I still loved her but chose to reply to the hate one.